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sexual urges while watching porn, normal or not?
While everyone is pouring their guts and souls out I want to know is it normal to feel some sort of a sexual urge while watching porn. My husband should be a dealer because he has them laying all around the house. I watched one and there were two females getting it on and it gave me an wet one. I am not bi or anything but I have always wondered about this. Before this get out of hand I have never had any encounters or any fantacy. I am from that old school that says if you think about it then you want it, is this true??
God is love, Always
Toni -
That doesn't make you a lesbian, if that's what you are asking.
You watched two people have sex, of course you are going to be aroused. I think it's perfectly natural. Doesn't mean you are attracted to the people or that you want to do what they are doing with them. Just means that sexual activity turns you on. -
It was possible that you were excited by it because you hadn't seen it before... sometimes seeing a type of sex performed that you've never been exposed to before is arousing because it's "forbidden."
It doesn't mean you want it. It means you saw something you've never seen and your body reacted to the images.Comment
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I originally posted on this Topic but chickened out. The way I sounded it was as if I had a problem as my thoughts were the same as yours. In the past few days I have checked other sites and find that most women do have these urges. I don't think there is anything wrong with them as they are probably normal. I can look at Porn with two women and get turned on. This does not mean that I would like to have sex with a woman but means that I like to look at two women having sex.
When I saw my first Jenna Johnston Porn flick or whoever she is, I was really aroused. My husband watched me grinding and very soon we were on the floor having sex. Both sets of eyes looking at the TV with the women doing their thing. I really wondered about myself and my high arousal watching them but that is as far as it went. If I was to look at Porn again I would not seek out man on man or woman on woman but probably couples sex. It, to me, was the shock of seeing how lovely women looked and to tell you the truth I learned some very erotic things for my husband to do to me sexually, watching those movies.
If it came to a choice of seeing sexual parts, it is a man. A nice big horny man...
Last edited by C; 12-09-2007, 07:52 PM.Comment
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