[val24wilson]

We both joined a gym(YMCA), and decided it would be a good idea to take a defense (grappling and wrestling class). It was his idea. Well, he lost against a young boy smaller than him and it seems to be affecting our sex life. He is 30 and in decent shape, however.

[a_dub]

Thats why I don't wrestle. I don't understand how people lose confidence. He was obviously desirable enough to date you.

[Claret]

We both joined a gym(YMCA), and decided it would be a good idea to take a defense (grappling and wrestling class). It was his idea. Well, he lost against a young boy smaller than him and it seems to be affecting our sex life. He is 30 and in decent shape, however.

Weren't you here last year posting about the same boyfriend that lost his confidence because of the same reason?

[val24wilson]

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Weren't you here last year posting about the same boyfriend that lost his confidence because of the same reason?

Whoa! This is my first time here. .

(Edit going behind the profanity filter)

[Claret]

boards.askmen.com › Forum ›


22.1.2011

.mens-health.com/boards/se...rform-bed.html]mens-health.com[/url]

.womens-health.com/boards/...lers-wish.html]Women's Health Forum[/url]

Same story all three times.

[Claret]

I will apologize if it's not you but it seems rather suspect to me, and the previous posts which are so similar were found out by our own CW.

[jns]

Whoa! Who are you to make such accusations?This is my first time here. If you do not have an appropriate reply or cannot be nice stay away. Why would you even bother to respond if you thought the post was similar to someone else or did not have advice ****************k off you cyberbully you with your ignorant accusations.

If you do a search for Chloe P, you will find a fake scenario set up by a troll that is strikingly similar to your own. When we gave opinions and advice, the fiction by the troll-writer kept making unbelievable twists and turns. Basically it wasted a lot of our time.

Claret is a good poster here who writes thoughtful replies. She noticed the similarities and she alerted the rest of us who were taken for a ride. The way to protest her observations about the similarities is to calmly disassociate yourself from the other situation after investigating it. It is not good to use harsh ad hominem attacks as that will get you banned, no matter the situation.

[jen1447]

I just skimmed that thread lol ....what was the point of all that anyway, some sort of sexual fighting fetish exercise? Weird.

[rcoreyus]

If this is a new poster, they can read the old thread. No way to ever know for sure who anyone is on the internet.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ok. Firstly, we do have a rule here and that is not to judge. And, if in doubt report so the Moderators or Little, or myself can check, so on that note, we apologise val as there is no indication that you are the same person as Chloe P who was banned from here in 2011.

What occurred in 2011 as you can see from the link is the exact same heading was made "My boyfriend lost his confidence".. We have to credit the members for recalling it though if you can appreciate they reply to so many in hope to offer sound opinions that may assist. Please see below.

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/32686-my-boyfriend-lost-his-confidence.html

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/63891-my-boyfriend-lost-his-confidence.html

Chloe P

So reluctantly, I agreed to watch my boyfriend's MMA match a few days ago. It's not that I'm non-supportive but he lost his last match and I just don't want to see him get hurt. Anyways, I figured what the heck, it might even turn me on to see my boyfriend pound on another man.but now it's like he's almost lost all his passion and sexual prowess.

We both joined a gym(YMCA), and decided it would be a good idea to take a defense (grappling and wrestling class). It was his idea. Well, he lost against a young boy smaller than him and it seems to be affecting our sex life. He is 30 and in decent shape, however.

There are similarities to the story however, different. Our team off course do not tolerate Trolls and do keep an eye out, our members obviously feel the same.

So we hope you can see that our members are just being protective perhaps over the new members here, Ms Chloe came back 3 times as different people.

With that, please continue and welcome to WH.