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  • kira
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2008
    • 986

    My gspot is really not that far in. Maybe half of my small fingers. The problem is just touching it does nothing. I used to take a long, hard dildo, fasten it down, and then shove myself over it so it bent up towards my g spot and generated enough force I could feel it by setting my hand on the outside. It took scraping back and forth across it with that much pressure to really get anywhere. That's a good 6+ inches of properly aimed length. Very few guys even if they have the length can get the angle and hit farther back than my g spot. My husband's penis tends to go straight in, aimed directly for my cervix. I have to fight with my abs to tip my hips against the position he's in.

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    • jen1447
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 2380

      Originally posted by kitty
      very unfortunately placed Clit & g-spot
      LOL - what the hell does that mean? Oh, just in general - like the usual injustice of clits and g-spots not being on the penis pathway?

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      • a_dub
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2011
        • 514

        Originally posted by jen1447
        You should try searching for one sometime, a-dub.

        Women's anatomies can vary a lot, but I've never seen one that close to the vaginal opening (and I've known a lot of them). The bigger issue tho is that the penis has to basically go by/past it with friction in order to stimulate it well, it can't just stop when it gets there, because it's not at some kind of natural ending point in most women. That means larger guys will tend to have more luck, and/or guys with an upward curvature. G-spot vibes curve upwards to make this happen better.

        Fingers actually do a better job than penises because you can have fine control over what you do with your fingertips. Penises just tend to sort of run amok in there. I can usually reach them using my middle finger.
        Search as in an actual anatomical or gynocological search or an internet porno search?

        Unless you're one of those women with super long fingers, the average penis ought to reach most g spots and go past them. But its still weird cuz I've always heard its only 2 inches deep on the anterior (front) wall of the vajeej. Do I at least have the right wall?

        Is there any way to tell you've found the g spot once you reach it? Does it feel different than the rest of the vagina?

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        • Lovcookie
          Veteran Member
          • May 2010
          • 222

          Reads like the fit thing must have validity for many women. Come to think of it many women have said I love your C. or you have a nice C. its so hard you know how to use it bla bla. during and after sex. It was mentioned achieving G spot is best by on partner going all the way in even though the Gspot is usually within the first few inches. My experience supports this as often when I go full all the way in and working it like that somehow seems to make part of the penis hit the right spot. I have noticed many women going over the edge suddenly with this action.
          Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 03-06-2014, 11:26 PM.

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          • cathy23
            Member
            • Oct 2011
            • 69

            in my personal experience every guy is different. Some guys thrust at different angles, some faster, slower, etc. I like one a bit thicker because of the friction as it hits all sides.

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            • Lovcookie
              Veteran Member
              • May 2010
              • 222

              Another thing I was told is I can be strong in bed and in the process or you don't realize how strong you are. What ever that really means I am not sure (my C is strong? My action is strong, my body is strong...not sure want they feel or mean. I mix it up but when I realize the woman is feeling extremely good I really love it and want her too blow her lid. The sensation of strength and a hard body is exciting to them maybe??? One did say your C feels too strong. Can women feel in detail how hard a C is inside?

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              • Bulldog
                Member
                • May 2014
                • 27

                Two cents based upon pretty robust experience.

                If your partner comes with gspot option then it's different than clitoral obviously. My ex was clit only and she always got there by grinding on me. That was always common for majority I dated.

                Current gf is a gspot squirting wonder!!

                It does swell quickly and profusely for her. She had never cum from penetration in her past but does with me now to her surprise.

                Here's how. Missionary or me kneeling with my thighs resting on my calves. My shape has slightly upturned curve towards the end. Think of a slightly upturned saber not a spear. Lol.

                So with about 3 inches in the tip is gliding over her gspot. As I rock back and forth voila. She's drenching the sheets! And both of us.

                It's a very intense experience for us both.

                I am curious how many woman can have both type of Os. ??

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