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  • Justice
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 204

    Originally posted by chaya
    I do many things for my husband out of a sense of duty. If he asked me to do anal sex, I would refuse.

    I don't judge, it's just not for me, am I the only one?
    At this point most things might be speculative for me... but I agree.
    I've posted before that I've heard doctors talk about damage which often results from anal sex. Including leakage. No thanks. Again - I am not judging but not for me either.

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    • Claret
      Assistant Admin
      • Jan 2011
      • 1823

      I agree, no judgements but the anal sphincter and the colon is designed for one way movement (peristalsis is a radially symmetrical contraction and relaxation of muscles which propagates in a wave down a muscular tube) and anal sex can (not always but can) stretch and distort these organs interfering with the normal action. As mentioned leakage can be one side effect.
      That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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      • Artistmum
        Junior Member
        • Mar 2014
        • 4

        I like anal - i don't climax but size of the partner is key . my preference is actually vaginal sex whilst using anal beads slowly inserted in foreplay and slowly pulled out around climax (timing is everything and so far i am close but not yet perfected) it is defiantly different strokes for different folks however what ever you do lube is essential and lots of it !!

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        • ms_lorr
          Banned
          • Feb 2014
          • 31

          My hubby got into this recently, I don't get much from it, he likes it's, I lie there and let him please himself. Never had to do any prep or had any problems since.

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