[Daffodils&Cream]

Alright Ladies & Gentlemen...

Perhaps a little light-hearted fun...

Any care to share what they have used to arouse or be aroused in the way of "pillow talk"?

[metboogie]

I think most men are turned on by the woman simply being vocal - whether it's "YES, YES, YES!" or "Harder, deeper..." or "You feel so good right now"...generally anything that implies we are doing something good is a turn on.

Also, giving instructions is a great turn on...like "turn me over" or "grab my *ss"...

[Drewstraws]

A little goes a long way.

A guy here. Was here tonight and was curious about your thread and thought I could share. Some of my girlfriends mentioned I was real quiet in bed. Funny, most of them were also. So for my last girlfriend I decided to let more out. Even if it was just a sound. You know like in tennis or karate. More moaning, vocalising, more talking during foreplay. Not fake grunting. Some might think its for better breathing. I don't know. A little embarassed here but during oral I can't say much but an approving moan was a signal to her how much I wanted her and for her to feel pleasure. I also started to say things I felt but never told her. Once during sex I was on top and told her how beautiful she was and how pretty her nipples were. I meant it and they were amazing. She went crazy and it took her to a higher level. I miss times like those....Have a nice night.

[becca_smith75]

Awhh thats sweet!... girls do like to hear that there beautiful, that makes a girl feel very sexy! (and happy) I had an ex that treated me good like that.
I have a hard time being vocal, i want too, but i find myself shy that way. I dont want to be. Im afraid im going to say something ******, or he might laugh, then I'd be humiliated.
I will say, "oh you feel SOooo good", "turn me over" stuff like that, but to be able to actually tell him what to do, how to do it, freaks me out. I get all shy and stuff.

[goldrush044]

pillow talk

I personally think that interaction during intercourse is something all should try, the more you do it the more you will relax, and it lets your partner know you are in aroused by them and boosts your confiedence in each other. i say if it feels good and you both are confortable then go for it, if you havent tried it then you wont know how your partner will react to it will you? i love it when my partner interacts with me in any way during love making.

[haillei]

Why?

A guy here. Was here tonight and was curious about your thread and thought I could share. Some of my girlfriends mentioned I was real quiet in bed. Funny, most of them were also. So for my last girlfriend I decided to let more out. Even if it was just a sound. You know like in tennis or karate. More moaning, vocalising, more talking during foreplay. Not fake grunting. Some might think its for better breathing. I don't know. A little embarassed here but during oral I can't say much but an approving moan was a signal to her how much I wanted her and for her to feel pleasure. I also started to say things I felt but never told her. Once during sex I was on top and told her how beautiful she was and how pretty her nipples were. I meant it and they were amazing. She went crazy and it took her to a higher level. I miss times like those....Have a nice night.

Why do you miss times like those? Are you not with her anymore? Couldn't help but the notice the frown in your post.

[Drewstraws]

Hi Haillei

Hey there Haillei,
We broke up about 5 months ago and with the addition of some family troubles I am very lost. Not being in love has weighed more heavily on me now than ever in my life. I live alone and no kids. Being with someone requires the greatest amount of openness and communication. Wether in the bedroom or grocery store etc. Back then those channels were opening for her and me but it ended before we could figure out a engagement/marriage thing. 100% open sexual expression and communication I now know means more than just raw sex. It is all of the care and love for each other with nothing holding it back. Freedom.
Thanks. Love you all.