[ms_lorr]

My hubby recently shaved his balls and I love it and them, I want to play with them, suck them, bite them. He wont let me touch them after the first time I tried, saying they are too sensitive to play with.

The more he says no, the more I want to play with them when it comes to sex time, how do you persuade a man to let you play with them if he doesn't want to?

[jns]

Why did he shave his balls? There has to be a reason behind it.

Biting should be out as it would be extremely painful. Playing with them roughly can be painful and could even cause him to involuntarily vomit. Gentle play is usually a turn on. Promise to play very gently and then stick with it unless he says you can be a bit more forceful.

Guys can think that their balls are icky and why would their lover want to play with them. Does he like everything very clean?

[ms_lorr]

well, might be an age thing, his hair was getting longer in the last few years and getting matted after a gym session. Suits me, I was never keen on them when hairy, now I just want to suck them since he's done that. Odd I know

[Drifting1]

I started shaving my balls a couple months ago. I do it daily with a wet shaver and cream. Now they are so smooth and soft. My wife likes to lick and suck on them. The hair was disgusting. Also, I keep the rest of my hair down there trimmed really close.

[HerHusband]

HA!! Your a good woman. I started manscaping a couple years ago. I trim the pubes and even my chest and underarm hair if for no other reason than its a hygiene issue.
I also shave the balls and penis weekly. Not with a razor but I have a trimmer that is like my Braun shaver that does the balls and shaft very close. Wife likes it. She says they are baby but smooth. Makes her even more happy to blow me and lick the boys. As a side note I convinced her a couple years ago to let me shaver her ***** completely. She was one of the crew who had just the small landing strip but it was so sexy to let me do it. For a week she said she felt uncomfortable like a 10 year old girl and went back to the landing strip. 6 months ago she decided to go back to totally shaved. I love it. She gets upset with herself if she misses a couple days and knows we are going to have sex. On her period its not a bid deal. I also trim more than once a week if its going to be a busy time so to speak. Love the shaved look but she still likes chest/tummy hair.

[ms_lorr]

Any advice on how to get him to let me suck them? he wont let me near now

[darthfavre]

One thing you could do would be to play with them first and work your way gradually to suck on them. Kind of let him get used to having them touched.

You could do this as part of another activity such as oral, etc. One way my wife did it was by reaching back and fondling mine when she was riding me. Since I was in the midst of being hot and heavy, there really wasn't a way for me to object. Plus, I ended up liking it.

Make sure you are gentle because it doesn't take much to make them hurt (I have gotten nauseous a couple of times after doing a self exam)

Good luck!

[jen1447]

Unless he has some medical condition that makes them especially sensitive, you're not gonna hurt them by playing around with them (gently). Don't leave him the option - I'd just throw him down and do what you want with them. If he has any sense he'll just lay back and enjoy the ride.

[Never_Accept_Defeat]

My hubby recently shaved his balls and I love it and them, I want to play with them, suck them, bite them. He wont let me touch them after the first time I tried, saying they are too sensitive to play with.

The more he says no, the more I want to play with them when it comes to sex time, how do you persuade a man to let you play with them if he doesn't want to?

There is really only one reason why as a man you would ever do this, that is the fact you are wanting you "balls" touched and played with; more importantly with your partners mouth. The shaving is a move of consideration to the fact that NO ONE man or woman unless they have a weird fetish enjoys a mouth full of hair. If I were you, and I am not because I am a man; I would just get going with your bad self and slowly work your way down to them one night. He may have super sensitive "balls", and if you do not own a set I do not expect you to understand. Anyone who says "unless he has a weird medical condition" obviously does not have testicles, just as I do not have a vagina so I do not really know what hurts and what doesn't.

The weirdest things at just the right angles or pressures can actually create an unusually large amount of pain. However I doubt that is his issue. Don't be biting them because that is a no no, do not try and roll them because that twists them up and hurts. Just work on him slowly and get him used to the idea. More than likely what you are dealing with is a man that is less experienced than you or has less imagination. GO YOU for trying to spice things up and get it going. Be patient and he will come around OR you could flat out ask him and tell him it turns you on to do it to him. You would be surprised Most of us Men would do anything for you Women if we knew it turned you on. Just need to get that line of communication started and let the good times roll.

[Never_Accept_Defeat]

By the Way this is funny.....What man in his right mind wouldn't allow this. Sounds like he is insecure about it.