[mandrus]

Lights on...men experience pleasure visually, auditorally, and physically. Men love to not only see what they we doing, but the reaction and response you give to what we are doing to you. My wife prefers lights off because at times she is self conscious which I find ridiculous and do my best to reassure her that she is beautiful and sexy in every way. Sometimes we will turn the lights off but open the blinds and curtains so that the light from the street and the moon will provide some visual for me, but nothing so revealing that she feels insecure.

[Patti-here]

I like them on,, men are very visual and like seeing what they are getting, and I have no problem with it

[jen1447]

Because you are perdy like CW said!

[Motorguy]

During our first 2 years of marriage, my husband wanted the lights off because he was shy. It didn't matter to me as I wasn't shy with him

Now he wants the lights on, presumably so he can see better and now I'm shy, especially when he wants to check me out down there. When he's doing that I can't help but think about my sister, she told me one of her boyfriends would check her out under the covers with a flashlight. If hubby ever comes to bed with a flashlight, he'll find himself sleeping alone.

What's your preference, lights on or off?

Thanks Chaya I almost lost my tea all over my lap top on that LMAO. The best idea light is from the TV with no sound. But it's light enough in the room so you not using braille to feel around that's all I need with wife and me.

[Patti-here]

Because you are perdy like CW said!

So are you, my dark haired beauty

[Trixareforkids]

it's light enough in the room so you not using braille to feel around that's all I need with wife and me.

This made me LOL with a little snort. Braille, that's good stuff there, hubby's gonna get a chuckle out of this one

[jen1447]

So are you, my dark haired beauty

Better watch it there sexy, I'm gonna fall in love.

[Patti-here]

Better watch it there sexy, I'm gonna fall in love.

I'm available weekends

[jen1447]

Sounds like the intro to a porno ....hey does WHF have a hot stories forum??

[Patti-here]

Sounds like the intro to a porno ....hey does WHF have a hot stories forum??

Dunno,,, Pssssst we can make our own...