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  • Motorguy
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    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Originally posted by jen1447
    The whole orgasm/ejaculation question can be really complex ....clit orgasms, g-spot orgasms, whole vagina orgasms, full body orgasms, combination orgasms ....add into all those squirting, gushing, neither or both - the possibilities seem endless. Then add in the fact that no two women are the same.

    For me, the sensations of squirting and gushing are quite different, just like clit orgasms are different from g-spot orgasms and so on. I cum really hard for both squirting and gushing, but while I can squirt over and over, I only gush once (per session, and not always), and when it happens it's always at the end, and that orgasm is always the orgasm to end all orgasms in terms of quality, duration, physical impact, etc. Basically a squirt orgasm can be anywhere from an 8-10/10, but the gush is always a 20/10. The point I'm making I guess is that I too experience different things with these different types of Os. They may not be the same different things as you all, but I think it validates the notion of variation in physical response. As to why that is, I have no idea, but it tends to make me want to dismiss any notions of normalcy when it comes to women and how they cum. The whole thing is just too wide open to fit into any neat categories of right or wrong.

    (Interestingly, I'm actually more likely to have a gushing orgasm at the end the more clit orgasms I've had preceding it. So for example if I have only one clit O, chances are there will be no gush to follow up and end it. But if I have a bunch of clit Os and squirt and all that and the sex is going on for a long time, the gush O is pretty much guaranteed.)

    Well Jenn for my wife Donna she can only squirt if she really turn on after a while of finger and oral play. But she will have those orgasm over and over as she really gets turn on more and more till she builds up so much and will finally squirt and it's so much that we have plastic sheets place down if we plain on a long love making section. But once she has squirted she like some guys after they orgasm she is done and will fall asleep it's a great sleeping pill for her lol.
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