[Motorguy]

I do oral on her all the time. Did it for four hours straight today (well we had breaks where she needed a couple minutes after orgasm but I just follow up with like a neck or shoulder rub in that instance to not kill the mood). I will also perform oral on her while she is on her period (took some persuading to get her into this because she was worried about cleanliness and the smell).

As for me not liking blowjobs, I just dunno. I much prefer handjobs from her. I might say that a handjob is to me what a blow job is to another guy?

As for her take on the matter. Well, early in our relationship she said she always loved giving BJ's but I think she was just conditioned to think that. She did a lot of it apparently in her last relationship. If you ask her about it now she would say she hates doing it and is thrilled that I don't like them. We plan to get married and she is glad she can go the rest of her life without giving one ever again.

When I first discovered porn on the internet at a young age I would skip the blowjob scenes lol. And that was before I ever had one.

When I was little my best friend's older brother told us that the best feeling we would ever experience in our lives would be a BJ. I had my doubts!

If done right it really is the best. Most girl in high school pretty much did only BJ'S because they was worried of getting pregnant if they had sex.Because most guys didn't carry condoms and the BJ was awesome if not as satisfying in the car or in the theater or at a party.

[Something_Awesome]

I do oral on her all the time. Did it for four hours straight today (well we had breaks where she needed a couple minutes after orgasm but I just follow up with like a neck or shoulder rub in that instance to not kill the mood). I will also perform oral on her while she is on her period (took some persuading to get her into this because she was worried about cleanliness and the smell).

As for me not liking blowjobs, I just dunno. I much prefer handjobs from her. I might say that a handjob is to me what a blow job is to another guy?

As for her take on the matter. Well, early in our relationship she said she always loved giving BJ's but I think she was just conditioned to think that. She did a lot of it apparently in her last relationship. If you ask her about it now she would say she hates doing it and is thrilled that I don't like them. We plan to get married and she is glad she can go the rest of her life without giving one ever again.

When I first discovered porn on the internet at a young age I would skip the blowjob scenes lol. And that was before I ever had one.

When I was little my best friend's older brother told us that the best feeling we would ever experience in our lives would be a BJ. I had my doubts!

[Motorguy]

Personally, I have never reached climax from a blowjob, but then again I have not had too many of them. I did let my girlfriend (who I've been with for three years) go down on me once but it was just for a short period before I had to push her away. She of course took it the wrong way (like she is bad at them), but the reality is that I don't like receiving them.

Oh wow i never meant a guy yet who doesn't like oral sex done on him self. Did you have a bad experience once and told yourself never again. What does your girl friend think of this do you do oral on her or is that taboo as well.

[Something_Awesome]

Personally, I have never reached climax from a blowjob, but then again I have not had too many of them. I did let my girlfriend (who I've been with for three years) go down on me once but it was just for a short period before I had to push her away. She of course took it the wrong way (like she is bad at them), but the reality is that I don't like receiving them.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I have a problem cumming from my Girlfriends Blow Jobs. I know blowjobs can make me Cum because the very few that my ex wife would give me made me cum. My ex was not a fan of giving blow jobs either.
My Girlfriend loves doing it and it feels great but for some reason I cant finish... Most of the time we do things in her bed. The one time she gave me a blowjob in her living room on her love seat I cam better then I ever did with my ex. Could it be that to loveseat made the difference? A sitting position, instead of laying down? How can I bring this up to her and maybe try the loveseat or somewhere other then the bed again?

Hi there Divorced Dad, I've noticed you haven't returned since you posted this and off course, I am sure there are further member's thoughts on this which I encourage replies.

Hope to hear your thoughts on the initial thoughts from the members and continued thoughts here after.

CW

[jen1447]

Free speech requires individuals defending others' abilities to say things that they don't like or don't agree with.

Likewise it requires that you defend her ability to say things you may not like. What exactly was the point of posting that, now that she can't defend herself here?

[jns]

Its much easier if you adopt a male dominant position. Try this technique: Have her sit or kneel in front of you. Stand with your legs astride her hips. Have her use one or both hands in unison with her mouth (using LOTS of saliva on the hand(s)). This will create a sense of depth and envelopment for you. Have her make eye contact with you. Between her mouth/hand work and your undulations she should be able to get you off in about 2 minutes flat. Let it go, let it go!

I'm generally not easily offended and after re-reading the physical description and finding no problem with it in a stand-alone setting, I found this post offensive.

So... I took a moment to analyze what it was that caused my repugnance and it's all about phrasing and what that phrasing implies to me. PhrendlyPhil it may be unconscious or unintentional but your phrasing implies actual dominance rather than role-play dominance. Make, have her, have her make, for you, your undulations should be able to get you off. The tone and phrasing you use show a complete disregard for the other person involved in the act and THAT is what I find offensive.

I would ask others to chime in on this as I have felt it, to a lesser degree on other posts you've made and if it is an emerging pattern I would ask what is to be done.

If this is referring to my offense at PhrendlyPhil's post however, it wasn't the act he was describing that I have a problem with, I enjoy vanilla subbing, it was entirely about the chauvinistic way in which he presented his suggestion and his chauvinistic attitude across all the posts. This is a women's forum, if you have no respect for women you shouldn't be here in my opinion. And it is my estimation, from his comments, that he has no respect for women beyond whichever one is servicing HIS needs. Stopping now before I get nasty.

It is always good to get a cross section of ideas to help you make up your mind about a subject as long as the posters are civil. Phil helps define a certain segment of thought. It may not be the way I think, but that is OK because it sharpens the focus of the discussion.

I'm trying to find a way to describe why I don't agree with you that won't be offensive and I'm not sure I can. I'll just say what first came to my mind and take my lumps for it. To me Phil is a vocal KKK member at a Martin Luther memorial. He may have a RIGHT to be here but I can't welcome him.

This post is totally hypocritical and uncalled for in this forum! I find this particular comment very off-putting and offensive. You even admitted that you think your comment will be offensive and yet you willingly posted it anyway! In my opinion, you should be banned for such offensive slander. You are personally attacking the poster, which should never be permitted by the community. I strongly believe you owe the poster and the community a sincere apology!

Note that Trix was responding to my defense of Phil posting on this site. Free speech requires individuals defending others' abilities to say things that they don't like or don't agree with. Actually, Martin Luther (of the 95 Theses fame) does not fit in the sentence; Martin Luther King, Jr. does. Some irony. Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., who should be a hero to all Americans, was all about free speech. An assassin's bullet cut short his ability to give that free speech. It's ironic his name was used in a sentence that seems to defend limiting speech if it is deemed offensive due to ideology. What if such limitations had been put on Rev. King from the very beginning?

[Trixareforkids]

but "Psssssst" I never lie either

I was about to agree with you, but I can't, lol. I tell little white lies to spare feelings. Other than that though I don't lie either. I may not tell EVERYTHING all the time, but I don't lie. I don't see the point.

[Patti-here]

Oh I like to lighten the mood up,, I'm not all that deep,, but "Psssssst" I never lie either

[Trixareforkids]

Patti, you crack me up. You seem so quiet and you're so matter-of-fact that the way you put things out there sometimes just makes me laugh.