[Motorguy]

Not all people institutionally know what to do Patti, but guiding the head is also not the way to direct them, lol I think Motorguy and Jen are pretty typical, it just feels nice to put your hands in someone's hair when they're doing something so pleasant for you.

That exactly what I was trying to say. I may have not explain my self well.

[Patti-here]

Not all people institutionally know what to do Patti, but guiding the head is also not the way to direct them, lol I think Motorguy and Jen are pretty typical, it just feels nice to put your hands in someone's hair when they're doing something so pleasant for you.

Hon,, when you're with another girl you do institutionally know what to do,, and I don't mind having my hair stroked at all,, I take that as a show of affection..

[Claret]

You don't need to steer us,, we instinctually know just what to do ;-)

This made me spew my soda all over my keyboard.

[Trixareforkids]

Not all people institutionally know what to do Patti, but guiding the head is also not the way to direct them, lol I think Motorguy and Jen are pretty typical, it just feels nice to put your hands in someone's hair when they're doing something so pleasant for you.

[effy2014]

Let me ask you something,, who's really in control of the situation ??? Think about it....

No need to even think about it. We are completely helpless in the situation, trusting the women in our lives to choose the right path between orgasm and "bobbitizing" us for something we may have done ...

[Patti-here]

I'll admit I like touching a girl's head or resting a hand on her head and/or playing with her hair when she's down there. It's really very tender and romantic. But I'm not at all 'steering' her lol.

You don't need to steer us,, we instinctually know just what to do ;-)

[Trixareforkids]

Communication is the best sexual tool in the toolbox.

True dat!

[jen1447]

I'll admit I like touching a girl's head or resting a hand on her head and/or playing with her hair when she's down there. It's really very tender and romantic. But I'm not at all 'steering' her lol.

[effy2014]

I always cum late to these great topics and now I don't know what to comment on ... DD's problem cumming from a BJ (to which my first response was "huh?), the tone of written responses to sexual positions or the BDSM lifestyle.

DD's issue, as Jenn suggested is no doubt psychological. Changing locations or positions is the best idea if it works. It may also help to get himself "worked up" giving to his GF first. Context for me is very important and I am generally cold to any sexual act without the kissing and touching that goes with it.

As for tone, it is tough to talk about male dominant positioning without coming across as male jerk. My SO loves for me to pull her hair and be directive while she is giving oral. I would never have discovered that on my own (I would have thought it a turn off) -- she was the one that told me. Communication is the best sexual tool in the toolbox.

[Trixareforkids]

Okay lol - I'm starting to suffer from acronym blindness.

I worked for a gov't contractor where we produced a crap-ton of gov't publications it was acronym HE--! NCJRS, HUD, FEMA, NAC, HHS, on & on, and each one had a crap-ton of sub acronyms.