[Motorguy]

I don't know all that much about it,, but I have guys tell me it's best for them if they stand up and im on my knees...

Some guys feel there in control more when you doing that. They can hold your head and control the action more that way. Plus is a very hot look for the guy as well.

[Trixareforkids]

Well I know I enjoy sensory deprivation sex on occasion, think it's time to find out if hubby will to.

[rcoreyus]

Its funny, for me BJs are largely a visual thing - wouldn't be nearly as much fun if I couldn't see what was going on. (different strokes etc..)

Little did Archer know that with that comment he'd be starting a trend all over the world, lol

[Patti-here]

I don't know all that much about it,, but I have guys tell me it's best for them if they stand up and im on my knees...

[Motorguy]

Little did Archer know that with that comment he'd be starting a trend all over the world, lol

You maybe onto something there Trix, because I am going to try it with my wife and see how it go's lol. It's kind of exciting to be honest.

[Motorguy]

Ok little Ms. Detective here lol ....I'm betting physiology. You got very few BJs from your ex wife, does that mean you masturbated a lot? I think most guys masturbate to porn, so that most likely means sitting at your computer desk at 2:00 a.m. lol, which means a sitting position ....just like when you sat in the love seat and it worked. In other words, you may have inadvertently taken yourself out of your physiological comfort zone by getting oral while lying in bed.

I would have to agree very much so on this idea of yours makes prefect sense to me.

[jen1447]

Ok little Ms. Detective here lol ....I'm betting physiology. You got very few BJs from your ex wife, does that mean you masturbated a lot? I think most guys masturbate to porn, so that most likely means sitting at your computer desk at 2:00 a.m. lol, which means a sitting position ....just like when you sat in the love seat and it worked. In other words, you may have inadvertently taken yourself out of your physiological comfort zone by getting oral while lying in bed.

[rcoreyus]

Psychology is all important. Was it the rarity of the BJs from your ex wife that made them more arousing? No offense, but is it possible that since your ex-wife didn't like doing them, the submissive nature of her agreeing to do so made them more exiting? When you were sitting on the loveseat and your girlfriend gave a BJ, was she kneeling in front of you - again a submissive position?

[Trixareforkids]

Little did Archer know that with that comment he'd be starting a trend all over the world, lol

[Romy]

Try a blindfold. One of the only "full-body" orgasms I've ever had was from a BJ while blindfolded. You can even wrap a pillow around your ears so you can't hear either; all you can do is feel, and it's pretty effing amazing.

I can't wait to try this on my partner.