[PhrendlyPhil]

I worry that how I prefer to masturbate (shower head and electric toothbrush) has desensitised me but he disagrees completely. ?

Romy: Have you ever let him use the shower head or electric toothbrush on you? Maybe that would be a good way to get the ball rolling.

[Motorguy]

Romy: Have you ever let him use the shower head or electric toothbrush on you? Maybe that would be a good way to get the ball rolling.

Oh that's why my water bill so much the hand held shower head is that most women's new boy friend lol.

[Patti-here]

Oh, a water wand can work miracles !!

[Motorguy]

Oh, a water wand can work miracles !!

Oh from what I heard yes it can the shower head is just one of her other boy friends lol.

[Patti-here]

I look at as a BFWB

[Motorguy]

I look at as a BFWB

Very good Patti LMAO!!!!!!

[sparty29]

I wish my wife was more into oral. She says she feels insecure about allowing me to go down on her. I wish I could help her relax and just try to enjoy it yet I do not want to push her into doing something she is not comfortable with. Tough spot..

[Something_Awesome]

I wish my wife was more into oral. She says she feels insecure about allowing me to go down on her. I wish I could help her relax and just try to enjoy it yet I do not want to push her into doing something she is not comfortable with. Tough spot..

I feel for you both. I've been with with a couple ladies that were in secure, but I was luckily able to persuade them to come over to the darkside

[TwistyDeb]

This reminded me of myself a few years ago.
I had a partner who (now an ex thank.god) only cared about his own pleasure. He never pleasured me.
In 6 years i only had a orgasm twice! I developed a complex and a lot of walls/barriers went up.

Now I am with my fiance and I told him about the ex and his selfisness in bed and although my fiance has only really had a quarter of sexual partners I have had and never even gone down on any other girl apart from me he was determined to make me cum.

It took a good few goes. I was doing what you are doing, oh maybe his neck is hurting, maybe I don't taste nice etc all things went flying through my mind while he was down there trying his hardest to make me cum. He started to reassure me that he wasnt going to give up and he is going to break down the barriers I had put up from my previous relationship.

Then one night it happened! It took him about an hour but he didnt give up! That was due to myself not letting go (not his technique)
It was the most amazing feeling cumming in his moist warm mouth the feeling was and still is so intense and now my barriers are completely down to the point that he now makes me squirt!
I also used to masterbate with the shower head. I do still now and then.

The next time he goes down on you remember to let yourself go. He wants to pleasure you and likes pleasuring you in I find the most intimate way. You said he always wants to go down on you, soubds to me he can't get enough of your taste and smell!
Let yourself go. If the neck pain thing is still playing on your mind, prop a pillow under your bum to elevate slighlty and that will tilt you more and may or may not be better for partner.
Oh and im not saying it will take you an hour. I had some serious barriers up. It was hard work for him but I can now cum within minutes of his tongue action down there.

LET. YOURSELF. GO.
He is doing it for you.

[Motorguy]

This reminded me of myself a few years ago.
I had a partner who (now an ex thank.god) only cared about his own pleasure. He never pleasured me.
In 6 years i only had a orgasm twice! I developed a complex and a lot of walls/barriers went up.

Now I am with my fiance and I told him about the ex and his selfisness in bed and although my fiance has only really had a quarter of sexual partners I have had and never even gone down on any other girl apart from me he was determined to make me cum.

It took a good few goes. I was doing what you are doing, oh maybe his neck is hurting, maybe I don't taste nice etc all things went flying through my mind while he was down there trying his hardest to make me cum. He started to reassure me that he wasnt going to give up and he is going to break down the barriers I had put up from my previous relationship.

Then one night it happened! It took him about an hour but he didnt give up! That was due to myself not letting go (not his technique)
It was the most amazing feeling cumming in his moist warm mouth the feeling was and still is so intense and now my barriers are completely down to the point that he now makes me squirt!
I also used to masterbate with the shower head. I do still now and then.

The next time he goes down on you remember to let yourself go. He wants to pleasure you and likes pleasuring you in I find the most intimate way. You said he always wants to go down on you, soubds to me he can't get enough of your taste and smell!
Let yourself go. If the neck pain thing is still playing on your mind, prop a pillow under your bum to elevate slighlty and that will tilt you more and may or may not be better for partner.
Oh and im not saying it will take you an hour. I had some serious barriers up. It was hard work for him but I can now cum within minutes of his tongue action down there.

LET. YOURSELF. GO.
He is doing it for you.

Wow give the fiance a gold star very good that is a serous trooper there. I think you found the right man to marry now Deb some men would have say F it after 10 minutes top and left you hanging for sure with no orgasm.Because they only looking at pleasure for them self.