[TwistyDeb]

Ahh he is great I love him so much. For him to keep going for that long over about a month just showed how much he loves me. We now have a son and ive told my fiance when they have the 'talk' if unlikely to orgasm together them the woman always comes first. Women don't wanna sleep after having an orgasm like men do ;-)
Us women like me tonight wanted to go for round two but with him snoring so loudly next to me I thought I'd let him sleep lol.

[Motorguy]

Ahh he is great I love him so much. For him to keep going for that long over about a month just showed how much he loves me. We now have a son and ive told my fiance when they have the 'talk' if unlikely to orgasm together them the woman always comes first. Women don't wanna sleep after having an orgasm like men do ;-)
Us women like me tonight wanted to go for round two but with him snoring so loudly next to me I thought I'd let him sleep lol.

Yes you worn him out Deb but at least you had that earth shaking orgasm form his oral skills. I don't know why these guys want to sleep i have never done that but that's just me. I guess for me I am just a horny toad I really never lose my erect after coming I am good for round two.

[Something_Awesome]

This reminded me of myself a few years ago.
I had a partner who (now an ex thank.god) only cared about his own pleasure. He never pleasured me.
In 6 years i only had a orgasm twice! I developed a complex and a lot of walls/barriers went up.

Now I am with my fiance and I told him about the ex and his selfisness in bed and although my fiance has only really had a quarter of sexual partners I have had and never even gone down on any other girl apart from me he was determined to make me cum.

It took a good few goes. I was doing what you are doing, oh maybe his neck is hurting, maybe I don't taste nice etc all things went flying through my mind while he was down there trying his hardest to make me cum. He started to reassure me that he wasnt going to give up and he is going to break down the barriers I had put up from my previous relationship.

Then one night it happened! It took him about an hour but he didnt give up! That was due to myself not letting go (not his technique)
It was the most amazing feeling cumming in his moist warm mouth the feeling was and still is so intense and now my barriers are completely down to the point that he now makes me squirt!
I also used to masterbate with the shower head. I do still now and then.

The next time he goes down on you remember to let yourself go. He wants to pleasure you and likes pleasuring you in I find the most intimate way. You said he always wants to go down on you, soubds to me he can't get enough of your taste and smell!
Let yourself go. If the neck pain thing is still playing on your mind, prop a pillow under your bum to elevate slighlty and that will tilt you more and may or may not be better for partner.
Oh and im not saying it will take you an hour. I had some serious barriers up. It was hard work for him but I can now cum within minutes of his tongue action down there.

LET. YOURSELF. GO.
He is doing it for you.

Great story. And yea, he probably likes the taste and smell. I actually learned to enjoy my gf's smell when she is on her period.

Another thing you can try is juicy coutoure. My GF uses something from that line (i think its from the juicy couture line anyway) and she smells and tastes great. It's mild, but strong enough to disguise any smell/taste that you think your partner may find unpleasant. However, it isn't so strong where it comes off as overpowering and your partner won't think it's immature. It's elegant.

She also uses it during her period when I go down on her, but since it is a bit mild, her natural smell over powers the fragrance. I can find out what she uses down there as it really is a great product. This may also be what those of you need if you're very self conscious about receiving oral. It is worth a shot and both of you don't deserve being deprive of cunnilingus!

[Romy]

This reminded me of myself a few years ago.
I had a partner who (now an ex thank.god) only cared about his own pleasure. He never pleasured me.
In 6 years i only had a orgasm twice! I developed a complex and a lot of walls/barriers went up.

Now I am with my fiance and I told him about the ex and his selfisness in bed and although my fiance has only really had a quarter of sexual partners I have had and never even gone down on any other girl apart from me he was determined to make me cum.

It took a good few goes. I was doing what you are doing, oh maybe his neck is hurting, maybe I don't taste nice etc all things went flying through my mind while he was down there trying his hardest to make me cum. He started to reassure me that he wasnt going to give up and he is going to break down the barriers I had put up from my previous relationship.

Then one night it happened! It took him about an hour but he didnt give up! That was due to myself not letting go (not his technique)
It was the most amazing feeling cumming in his moist warm mouth the feeling was and still is so intense and now my barriers are completely down to the point that he now makes me squirt!
I also used to masterbate with the shower head. I do still now and then.

The next time he goes down on you remember to let yourself go. He wants to pleasure you and likes pleasuring you in I find the most intimate way. You said he always wants to go down on you, soubds to me he can't get enough of your taste and smell!
Let yourself go. If the neck pain thing is still playing on your mind, prop a pillow under your bum to elevate slighlty and that will tilt you more and may or may not be better for partner.
Oh and im not saying it will take you an hour. I had some serious barriers up. It was hard work for him but I can now cum within minutes of his tongue action down there.

LET. YOURSELF. GO.
He is doing it for you.

Thank you TwistyDeb. Your post was exactly want I needed. I can't tell you how helpful you've been. I really appreciate the time you've taken to reply and reassure me and the fact you can totally relate to how I feel means such a lot.

[TwistyDeb]

Thank you TwistyDeb. Your post was exactly want I needed. I can't tell you how helpful you've been. I really appreciate the time you've taken to reply and reassure me and the fact you can totally relate to how I feel means such a lot.

You're so very welcome. I remember the feeling well. I so hope it helps because once you are over this hurdle, there will be no stopping you!

Lots of luck and many orgasms to come im sure!

[Something_Awesome]

My girlfriend uses Juicy Cotoure Body Scrub. Which would explain why it was mild and not over powering. Wasn't like an oil or flavored perfume. However, she admitted to me that she has not used it in a while. I am surprised I didn't notice. But that should serve as proof that if your guy really wants to give you oral, that he really could care less about the taste and smell.