[Justice]

Was not passing judgement. Was explaining how the whole sex-in-public thing applied to the relationship my gf and I have. And I was just expressing agreement with another poster about exposing oneself to kids. To be honest, I was not sure I knew exactly what you meant by "outside movie." So, I couldn't really speak on your situation anyway.

What I probably should have added was that my gf's judgement for where to do it in public (if she had it her way) sort of sucks. Her ideas for spots are saturated with kids. But I still love her to death and she's going to be the one I marry

P.S. I am not sure the other poster was passing judgement on you, just expressing his/her philosophical take.

I basically agree with both - I don't think it was meant to beat up any particular person, but I do think that the general caution about "public indecency" should at least be considered. Note you can be labelled a sex offender - so if you are not concerned about children (and I personally am not a fan of the total disregard for children's innocence - again NOT directed at anyone here) - you have to be aware of the difference between semi-public and public situations, because what seemed like fun can land you in trouble.

[Motorguy]

Ms Lorr I think you be a little hypocritical here many people have had sex in car at the drive in or theaters and enjoy public bathroom sex. There's more to sex then having it behind close doors only. That made be what you do and that's great but not everyone lives there life like you. Some of us are a little more daring in ares. But not right to say we are not normal and we are animals who's to say it's not civilized we had a President of this country who was getting BJ in the oval office and very few jump up and down saying what is wrong with that it's not sex yea right on that quote. There was no big out cry about it was he acting like adult or being uncivilized or and animal in your book and this man was the most powerful man in the free world just think about it.

[Baboy]

That may not have been intended as criticism of any particular person, but it sure looked like it was aimed at one, two or three individuals who posted before that comment was made. It also seemed rather judgmental and harsh: "No different than flashers". "Why do you think normal people would want to find you rutting away like an animal. (sic). Try being more civilized...."

Therefore, while I would not disagree with Lady Justice that her quoted words of Awesome cannot fairly be construed as beating up on anyone, the above quote is indeed a public flogging. It places one or more of the previous posters in the league of "flashers". The next clear implication, and the sting of the allegation, is that the poster(s) is (are) not normal, animalistic and uncivilized. I would call that defamatory. It's doubtful that defenses such as justification or fair comment would apply.

It is also probably reasonable to assume that most here would exercise a fair measure of discretion and I doubt that any here advocate a "total disregard of children's innocence", or even a fleeting disregard for that matter.

[Something_Awesome]

Ms Lorr I think you be a little hypocritical here many people have had sex in car at the drive in or theaters and enjoy public bathroom sex. There's more to sex then having it behind close doors only. That made be what you do and that's great but not everyone lives there life like you. Some of us are a little more daring in ares. But not right to say we are not normal and we are animals who's to say it's not civilized we had a President of this country who was getting BJ in the oval office and very few jump up and down saying what is wrong with that it's not sex yea right on that quote. There was no big out cry about it was he acting like adult or being uncivilized or and animal in your book and this man was the most powerful man in the free world just think about it.

I've done it in a car, but it's safe because the windows fog up!

And just to reinforce, I am not a fan of sex where you can easily get caught. And just because I hold that view does not mean I hate others that like risky sex.

When I was little I told my dad that I hate smokers. My dad turned to me and said that smoking is bad, but that doesn't make smokers bad. Now those words, to me, we're very enlightening at the time and I try to live my live by applying that philosophy to more than just smoking because I don't feel I should judge.

Again, my lady wants to have sex in super risky places and I don't agree with it. And while exposure to kids is a risk, she will be a killer mom. We've also never argued over this matter either as she is entitled to have that desire.

When I first opened this thread I had no intention on even posting my response as I had no experience in this area. I was curious and thought I might show my girlfriend the thread lol. But someone brought something up that triggered me, and I admit that my first post was a little too forward/blunt.

[rcoreyus]

In case you are still reading it. I don't think you did anything wrong. Not my personal kink, but I can see how it would have been really fun. Yes, it is barely possible a child could have seen you - but so what? It is not as if children are ruined for life by seeing people having sex - in fact I suspect most children have done so, especially now in the days of the internet.

I don't see it as like flashing where the idea is to be seen. (though I'm not particularly offended by flashing either - I'd call it a very minor offense - treat it like a speeding ticket).

I remember long, long ago loaning my car to a female friend (a previous girlfriend) who was visiting so she and her boyfriend could take a day trip somewhere. When it came back I noticed two naked footprints on the inside of the windshield.....I couldn't resist teasing her about it, but thought it was really funny, and nothing at all wrong.

So, from my point of view - go have fun. The proper penalty for being caught is being teased by your friends - that is the risk you take.....

[Baboy]

Like you, I have never been a big fan of sex in any locale remotely public and never had a gf who showed much interest in that direction. On occasion in recent times, my wife and I, and one or 2 gfs long ago, have made the beast with two backs in the great outdoors. But that was in wilderness locations where it is doubtful in the extreme that a family picnic was occurring within visual range.

I can understand those who will engage in sexual activity in more risky locations and I would not denounce them. As I said before, I suspect that most here - and most folks in general - look to avoid giving kids or anyone else too much of an eyeful. Most people are reasonable and act reasonably. I think this thread got somewhat derailed by the specter of children being exposed to X-rated behavior.

[chaya]

Back when I could enjoy sex, my favorite place was a blanket in front of the fireplace with a nice wood fire burning.

I only I was capable of reliving those nights.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Back on track - after some edits.

The Internet World is a strange place.

One comment can lead to speculation whether it's intended on a specific person or in general.

My thoughts are this. If you read something you don't like, don't respond as you'll always come of with possible ill intent.

We are Adults, what Adult is going to do anything in an area where it's possible a child may see? Not a normal human being. An Adult Movie Theatre I would have done that to.

We are Adults. And, that also means that some are risk takers and some are not. Those that are, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex behind a car, in a parking area, 3am in the morning, hidden at your boyfriends block of townhouses when the milkman delivers milk un-expectedly and so, you duck real quick as not to get caught.

No kids would be awake at that time in the morning and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being adventurous

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sex in public should rightly be illegal, kids or families could be about.

Edit

ms_lorr, help us out here please. I edited the rest of your post.

Don't you believe that there certainly are many public areas, such as for-in-stance, an Adult Movie drive in, or ie) 3am in the morning when children are sleeping, that Adults making a judgement call in that regard has the right to be adventurous?

I guess what I am asking is do you believe that Adults can't be responsible when making a management decision about sexual activity?

[Motorguy]

A few weeks ago we were on vacation...we were around family and we snuck away to the bathroom, it was literally a 3 minute quickie but it was SO hot and no one knew what we were up to. Hubby bent me over the sink and went away at it. After being together for 15 years, we don't do things like that often, so it was definitely exciting

Very exciting for sure along with being erotic at the same time. Having quickie sex when you know just right out side the bathroom door is your family just adds to the whole excitement of the sex.