My wife & I went away last weekend for a night away and we had an enjoyable weekend.
We had a good love making session and I finally plucked up the courage to ask her what her sexual fantasies were, does she have any... I asked her what turns her on the most and what would her 'ideal' love making session would be like. After nearly 12 years of marriage we’ve never really had this conversation.
Well it turns out she doesn’t have any fantasies really and the only thing that would turn her on more is if I lost a bit more weight…. I’m well aware that I need to lose a bit more weight, but I thought that she’d at least have 1 or 2 fantasies…. Is it weird for a woman (or a man) not to have any sexual fantasies??
I told her what my fantasies were with her and I understand that she doesn’t want me to ejaculate on her breasts and she won’t give me a BJ unless I am wearing a flavored condom – and I’m ok with that.
But when I told her that I would love it if she wore one of her scarves around her neck (she has some very pretty / sexy scarves) when we made love it would turn me on heaps, she was surprised… she thought I’d want to do some really kinky or unusual things.
I did mention that I’d like to tie her up with some of her scarves maybe and she seemed ok about that – she just asked that if we ever do that I can’t ejaculate over any of her scarves, and although it would be a thrill for me to do so, I wouldn’t because then we’d have to get them dry cleaned!
I am glad we had this conversation - don't know why we haven't had it earlier.... but I just thought it was unusual for someone not to have any sexual fantasies?
We had a good love making session and I finally plucked up the courage to ask her what her sexual fantasies were, does she have any... I asked her what turns her on the most and what would her 'ideal' love making session would be like. After nearly 12 years of marriage we’ve never really had this conversation.
Well it turns out she doesn’t have any fantasies really and the only thing that would turn her on more is if I lost a bit more weight…. I’m well aware that I need to lose a bit more weight, but I thought that she’d at least have 1 or 2 fantasies…. Is it weird for a woman (or a man) not to have any sexual fantasies??
I told her what my fantasies were with her and I understand that she doesn’t want me to ejaculate on her breasts and she won’t give me a BJ unless I am wearing a flavored condom – and I’m ok with that.
But when I told her that I would love it if she wore one of her scarves around her neck (she has some very pretty / sexy scarves) when we made love it would turn me on heaps, she was surprised… she thought I’d want to do some really kinky or unusual things.
I did mention that I’d like to tie her up with some of her scarves maybe and she seemed ok about that – she just asked that if we ever do that I can’t ejaculate over any of her scarves, and although it would be a thrill for me to do so, I wouldn’t because then we’d have to get them dry cleaned!
I am glad we had this conversation - don't know why we haven't had it earlier.... but I just thought it was unusual for someone not to have any sexual fantasies?
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