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  • Motorguy
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Originally posted by Patti-here
    For my two cents on this, it's always been very difficult for me to orgasm from ' thrusting' alone.
    You are not alone Patti on that most women need other stimulation to achieve the BIG O besides the thrusting alone more is needed.
    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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    • Natalie1962
      Member
      • Jul 2014
      • 71

      I've been with many younger men (late 20s early 30s to my 50-something) in my open marriage status and premature ejaculation was certainly a problem with many of them. How I solved it (sort of) was that as soon as we went to bed I told them to just "go at it" and have their way with me quickly with the understanding that they must not leave afterwards but stay, reload themselves, and go at it again, but this time much slower. It's actually quite fun to watch their faces as they realize that their fantasy with an older woman is about to come true. I then let them mount me, guide them inside of me and "lie back and think of England." Most don't last very long but with their lust out of their system they are much more relaxed and able to last a lot longer when we start up again.

      Natalie

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      • Motorguy
        Veteran Member
        • Mar 2014
        • 3921

        Originally posted by Natalie1962
        I've been with many younger men (late 20s early 30s to my 50-something) in my open marriage status and premature ejaculation was certainly a problem with many of them. How I solved it (sort of) was that as soon as we went to bed I told them to just "go at it" and have their way with me quickly with the understanding that they must not leave afterwards but stay, reload themselves, and go at it again, but this time much slower. It's actually quite fun to watch their faces as they realize that their fantasy with an older woman is about to come true. I then let them mount me, guide them inside of me and "lie back and think of England." Most don't last very long but with their lust out of their system they are much more relaxed and able to last a lot longer when we start up again.
        you when he Natalie
        But edging with a guy can make the orgasm for him so intense Natalie, you will feel the force of his come shooting in to you when that young man finally does. it can be pretty intense for both. Next time try this with a guy get him to edge for like a hour to almost till it hurts and then enjoy the pleasure he has when he does comes.
        When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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        • Lady Syrinx
          Senior Member
          • Apr 2012
          • 185

          Originally posted by jen1447
          An hour is definitely long. Averages are really meaningless here tho, there are just too many variables and what does it matter anyway? As long as she has her orgasms, she really won't care how long you spend thrusting during that part (assuming you're not at the extreme ends - 30 seconds or 7 hours, etc.).
          ]


          So true I'm not sure a woman's body is built to take hours of sex. I couldn't tell you what my hu sband does, all I know is it works well. He averages 20 minutes.

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          • Motorguy
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Originally posted by Lady Syrinx
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            So true I'm not sure a woman's body is built to take hours of sex. I couldn't tell you what my hu sband does, all I know is it works well. He averages 20 minutes.
            Well that's a good time many men don't last that long. But like you say of you having a orgasm it's doesn't matter how long he lasted you having your fun too lol.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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