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  • bootsie
    Senior Member
    • May 2013
    • 154

    Vocial During Sex

    My partner is not vocal when we are having sex and I really want her to.I have asked and talked to her about it and still she is not.The only way I know when she is cumming is when she makes a kinda funny noises,her body tightens up and starts shaking.Ladies other than body movements Are you vocal during sex with your partner? or you just do the body movement thing?Do you ever let your partner know how good it is? That you are about to cum or you are cumming?
  • Patti-here
    Banned
    • Mar 2014
    • 2602

    Originally posted by bootsie
    My partner is not vocal when we are having sex and I really want her to.I have asked and talked to her about it and still she is not.The only way I know when she is cumming is when she makes a kinda funny noises,her body tightens up and starts shaking.Ladies other than body movements Are you vocal during sex with your partner? or you just do the body movement thing?Do you ever let your partner know how good it is? That you are about to cum or you are cumming?
    I'm pretty vocal, I don't talk so much, I'll make encouraging remarks, but mostly I'm a moaner,, it's involuntary though...

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    • HerHusband
      Banned
      • Mar 2014
      • 58

      You cant force it or it seems fake. My wife is more of a moaner of late and some vocal. Anal gets the biggest reactions.

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      • trb1006
        Junior Member
        • May 2014
        • 6

        I am very vocal and have a hard time staying within reasonable levels. My husband and I often worry that I will wake the kids. It is a very involuntary thing. She may just not be a screamer or it may be hard for her to let go. I know a lot of women have a hard time truly letting go during sex.

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          My wife is a moan and groaning then really get into it will talk dirty with me. Till the BIO O is when she will start to scream louder letting me know she orgasming that will some times send me over the edge when she does.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • Something_Awesome
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2014
            • 1219

            Wait, what is the difference between vocal and moaner?
            "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              Originally posted by Something_Awesome
              Wait, what is the difference between vocal and moaner?
              Vocal some women enjoy talking nasty while having sex where a moaner is just that. I will take the vocal over the screamer any day the vocal words can be erotic and arousing as well.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • Something_Awesome
                Veteran Member
                • Apr 2014
                • 1219

                Oh... My GF is more of a moaner but will talk dirty in Italian (as mentioned in another topic).
                "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                • jen1447
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2013
                  • 2380

                  I like dirty/nasty talk but it has to be 'real.' (I once had a girl say "Eff me rawless!" and had to stop and ask her what that meant. She didn't really know. Bit of a head scratcher because it sounded unnatural coming from her. ) Personally I'm less a moaner than a ....sigher? More likely to go "Mmmmmmm ...." than "AHHHHHHH!!!!"

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                  • Something_Awesome
                    Veteran Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 1219

                    Jen, I will never forget the story you told about giving a guy blue balls. And now this! OMG these stories are so embarrassing that they make me feel embarrassed.

                    Edit: This alpha female at work once whispered to me in my ear if I thought I had a bigger **** than her... What I can say is you have much bigger balls than me. I could never do those things lol. I would just power through those weird moments.
                    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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