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  • Something_Awesome
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1219

    You guys were right... again...

    Oooooook. So...

    When giving oral my favorite position is when my GF is on top of me, facing me (Cowgirl on the face). Love it for many reasons and she loves it too. Only problem is that it can be a little harder for her to O in this position. So I am going at it right and I feel like she is in like this state of purgatory; almost reaching an O but not quite. So I knew I needed extra stimulation.

    I remember reading on this forum (don't know who posted it, maybe effy) that the butt hole has a lot of nerve endings. So I started playing with the end of her butt hole with my finger and gradually started to slide it in (the finger was dry if you are wondering). Long story short... she went boom... twice. A chain of two orgasms.

    At least, that is what we think. She never had a chain of orgasms before. When she O's via clit she becomes ticklish there, so I didn't think it coukd be twice via clit in succession. She said she O'd via clit and butt hole, back to back. At the very least, the O was very long and extremely intense.

    So after she was done she cupped her hands over her mouth and nose (sort of like how some people might cup their hands over their face when they see something shocking), and just kept saying "oh my god." She was surprised not just by the intensity of the orgasm, but that anal play would also feel great. She said she never could have imagined how great it could feel. She was in total disbelief. So was I. We never expected anal anything would be so great.

    She now wants a butt toy lmao. You guys should have seen her shock and awe. She also said "baby, you're the king." She never saw it coming. It's funny because earlier today I was so adamant about no anal penetration or analingus (sp?)

    To you butt veterans anal stimulation may be no big deal, but to butt virgins it is a huge deal. Especially when it is the last possible thing a receiver would expect.

    Thanks guys! The experience was totally rad
    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447
  • Patti-here
    Banned
    • Mar 2014
    • 2602

    This could open vast new horizons for the both of you Something, butthole play is very stimulating and it makes everything far more intense for the recipient , bravo Something.

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    • HerHusband
      Banned
      • Mar 2014
      • 58

      Better buy some Pjur Back Door Glide. The small travel bottle does not seem to be the same product as the normal bottle. The small spray bottle has some menthol smell to it and wife said it burned. Normal bottle product is great. It has a neutral taste as well. Guess how I know THAT!

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      • Something_Awesome
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2014
        • 1219

        Thanks Patti, and thanks for the encouragement Husband.

        Hopefully my post makes sense to you guys. Just re-read it and there are a butt-load (look, a pun) of punctuation omissions in it. I just really wanted to tell you guys lmao.
        "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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        • Patti-here
          Banned
          • Mar 2014
          • 2602

          Originally posted by Something_Awesome
          Thanks Patti, and thanks for the encouragement Husband.

          Hopefully my post makes sense to you guys. Just re-read it and there are a butt-load (look, a pun) of punctuation omissions in it. I just really wanted to tell you guys lmao.
          It made sense Something, and you've taken a giant step on the way to Full sexual fulfillment

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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            Only thing I can say is WH over the years has helped so many people it always makes me smile.

            What an A ss answer I know but I have a reputation to keep
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • effy2014
              Veteran Member
              • Apr 2014
              • 1777

              Welcome to the back side. I have also been successful a few times without lube when engaging in cunnilingus first (I think the juices migrated). HH has a great suggestion -- Pjur lubes are my favorite as well. I think the back door glide is silicone based but the water based ones work just fine as well for finger or toy play. The silicone ones work great in a pool . My SO and I found the same thing; anal play does intensify her orgasms.

              Toys are great. Start small and build up. Finger, toys and then ... tongue. Glad we could encourage.
              "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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              • Patti-here
                Banned
                • Mar 2014
                • 2602

                Let me interject for a moment, saliva is actually good enough for a finger, for anything else, well except the tongue that is, I'd strongly suggest a water based lube, I like Astroglide, I'm not a fan of chemicals like silicone...

                In the pool effy ?? Lol..

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                • atskitty2
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Aug 2013
                  • 4467

                  **sigh** yep, I remember the first time anyone surprised me with a little butt play. Ah, the memories...

                  For me at least, Something, it doesn't have near the same effect if you're not already very aroused and on the path to freedom, so to speak...
                  And I might add, she should also try that on you my dear

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                  • effy2014
                    Veteran Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 1777

                    Originally posted by Patti-here
                    In the pool effy ?? Lol..
                    Well, err, I suppose I said too much.. My SO had a great pool and the weightlessness in the pool was awesome.

                    A water based lube washes off in a pool and, believe it or not, water is a terrible lubricant for sex. Silicone, on the other hand, is perfect. Only problem is the silicone and latex (ie condoms) do not mix at all.

                    Hate to say, Patti, all lubes are full of chemicals. One just washes off easier.
                    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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