[jen1447]

Congratulations Something. LOL - the one worry I have for you now is how do you keep stepping up your game? GF probably thinks this is just the beginning and your bag of tricks is still full. (Actually no, she seems really grounded. But it's great you're pushing her.)

I agree with Patti about saliva for a little dip with the fingertip - it should be fine.

The lube suggestions are fine, but one thing you have to be sure about is does she actually want anything to go up there. It's not automatic. My anal experience is about 99% oral for example, so you can't assume that she's ready or even interested in some comparatively large instrument going where you just tickled her before. If she wants that, fine, but go slow. This was a good start and there's a lot more fun to be had in that arena alone.

The butt orgasm thing is interesting and I'm beginning to think it's legit, in one of two ways - either we have variations of our total body orgasms that are sparked by anal play, or the anus really is something of a sex organ and can generate orgasms itself. I favor the first possibility, mainly because I don't seem to have butt-specific orgasms, but it's possible our anatomies are different. Who cares either way I guess, as long as we're cumming.

Great job. Get ready to make that a part of your routine now, because now that you've unlocked that door she's not gonna want to close it again. Lucky you.

[effy2014]

The butt orgasm thing is interesting and I'm beginning to think it's legit, in one of two ways - either we have variations of our total body orgasms that are sparked by anal play, or the anus really is something of a sex organ and can generate orgasms itself. I favor the first possibility, mainly because I don't seem to have butt-specific orgasms, but it's possible our anatomies are different. Who cares either way I guess, as long as we're cumming

Not wanting to go off topic, but I am mystified about it as well. There is no physiological explanation I know of that anal orgasms are possible, yet my SO seems to orgasm during analingus without her playing with her clitoris. It works so why question it . . . but I am the curious type. The brain can certainly do marvelous things.

[jen1447]

It does feel very nice (tho I find it more relaxing than arousing when done on its own), and I think there may be a trigger somewhere between that and pushing the naughtiness button ....women being more into the total experience and all that (as opposed to visual like you guys). There's also kind of a pressure or tension sensation with the bum that's works along the same lines (think pulling beads out like Patti was saying).

[jen1447]

Ha - I verified SAGF's (Something's Awesome Girlfriend) experience! I did nothing but anal masturbation with a vibe (only light penetration, mostly surface attention) and had a buttgasm. I was really turned on tho, which I think very likely had a lot to do with it (women can actually orgasm at times with no manual stimulation at all), but still, the way I got there physically was thru my bum alone. Kinda crazy really but I like it.

[Patti-here]

Ha - I verified SAGF's (Something's Awesome Girlfriend) experience! I did nothing but anal masturbation with a vibe (only light penetration, mostly surface attention) and had a buttgasm. I was really turned on tho, which I think very likely had a lot to do with it (women can actually orgasm at times with no manual stimulation at all), but still, the way I got there physically was thru my bum alone. Kinda crazy really but I like it.

A little pause for the cause Eh? I can’t recall ever having ‘just’ a buttgasm, they always coincide with what’s going on with my Va-jay-jay, the two kind of work in tandem to intensify the onslaught of the orgasm that’s building up inside me.

[Romy]

Ha - I verified SAGF's (Something's Awesome Girlfriend) experience! I did nothing but anal masturbation with a vibe (only light penetration, mostly surface attention) and had a buttgasm. I was really turned on tho, which I think very likely had a lot to do with it (women can actually orgasm at times with no manual stimulation at all), but still, the way I got there physically was thru my bum alone. Kinda crazy really but I like it.

Again I want what Jen's having

[Patti-here]

Again I want what Jen's having

I'm hoping she'll be having me Romy

I know, dream on Patti, dream on..

[jen1447]

Girls will be girls ....

How has the anal stuff worked out for you Ro?

[Something_Awesome]

Thank you everyone for all your responses! I sometimes feel obligated to respond to everyone individually so that they don't think I did not read/appreciate or even smile at their responses. If I were to acknowledge everyone's post, I would be here all day. Was out with the GF all day Saturday so I did not get a chance to respond before the responses snowballed. And I don't like taking out the cell phone when with her.

I will say this though. I cannot believe I did not think of spitting/sucking on my finger first. Actually, I used a thumb because it can't go as deep, is less pointy, and I wanted a finger that could do a better job of stimulating the whole rim of the butt hole at the same time (wider contact surface).

So anyway, under normal circumstances I would have put my finger inside her vee-jay, however, the position she was in when on top of me gives me no room to stick my finger inside her vee-jay. So that's where I thought to use the butt hole instead.

What's cute was that after we finished, she said she was initially thinking: "aw, the poor guy missed" Lmao. She thought I was going for the vee-jay.

I will also say that the intensity of her orgasm has left me with a tad bit of performance anxiety. I feel like a big part of why her orgasm was so intense was the element of surprise, which is gone now. The O was so big I felt like I vicariously climaxed through her. After she O'd we stopped and talked about the experience. I did not physically orgasm during that session. I didn't really want to as I needed some time to mentally process the experience and the orgasm she had.

I am thinking, for the next surprise while performing oral, I can form a fist and extend my index and pinky fingers so that this way one finger can go in the"pink" and another in the "stink." This wil be new for her since she will be penetrated by fingers in both holes at the same time.

EDIT: love the SAGF acronym.

[jen1447]

You're thinking here ....that's all you really need. Complacency bad, innovation good. Keep up the good work!