[wolfdog]

i feel kinda embarrassed doing this but i'm 17 and i've masturbated since i was little.

the past year, when i finger myself, blood appears. it's not a massive lot but it's definitely not a small amount. even if i don't do it really hard. then when i pee later on (not straight after), it will sometimes hurt. and there is always like a TON of either discharge or light blood... this only lasts for a day though, then it's finished.

I can't confront this to my mum because.. well, embarrassment so I can't really go to a doctor or nothin. What is this, how do i get it to stop?

[Claret]

First question Wolfdog, are you male or female? This impacts greatly on the answers you will/should receive.

[wolfdog]

I'm female

[Romy]

If it were me I'd definitely either go and see a doctor or a sexual health clinic (in Australia these clinics deal with everything to do with sex and family planning and you don't pay anything). When I say sexual health clinic it's not because I think you have a sexually transmitted disease but they would be fully informed to help you in regards to you bleeding during masturbation. They would have seen and heard everything so you wouldn't need to feel embarrassed at all and it's confidential.

[wolfdog]

would it be a std though..? i mean i'm a virgin so i don't know how it'd happen

[Champagne_Supernova]

Hello wolfdog!
first off, don't panic!
if you're a virgin and you've never had vaginal intercourse, you could be breaking or tearing your hymen.
the hymen is a thin layer of tissue over the vaginal opening, inside the vagina. Some women are born with it, some aren't.
I'd suspect that's whats happening when you insert your fingers. However, it never hurts to see a gynecologist, they're there to help!
Good luck!

[wolfdog]

it's been happening quite often, it's getting annoying, is there a way i can get it to stop tearing?

[Patti-here]

I'm sorry if this sounds abrupt, but if it is your hymen, you'll have to stop fingering yourself, but it is going to break eventually when you do have sex.

[Motorguy]

it's been happening quite often, it's getting annoying, is there a way i can get it to stop tearing?

Well don't put your fingers deep inside you when masturbating. Just use them around the edges of your labia lips or play with the clitoris this may solve your bleeding problem.

[wolfdog]

so there's no way around it? i've got a boyfriend now and i don't want to bleed on him if we do have sex