[DonDraper123]

My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 months. In that time, we've had sex multiple times, but never once as she reached an orgasm. I'm her fourth total partner. She didn't never had her first orgasm until she discovered a specific type of friction with her second partner. She has to find that friction every time or nothing will happen. It's easier for her with clothes on than off.

She doesn't enjoy finger play or oral. She said she has tried different things, but cannot find that friction level with me. I know that she is committed to me and we have known each other for years. I'm afraid that we won't be able to fix this and what that will lead to.

What can I or we do to fix this?

I'm a guy, btw

[Motorguy]

My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 months. In that time, we've had sex multiple times, but never once as she reached an orgasm. I'm her fourth total partner. She didn't never had her first orgasm until she discovered a specific type of friction with her second partner. She has to find that friction every time or nothing will happen. It's easier for her with clothes on than off.

She doesn't enjoy finger play or oral. She said she has tried different things, but cannot find that friction level with me. I know that she is committed to me and we have known each other for years. I'm afraid that we won't be able to fix this and what that will lead to.

What can I or we do to fix this?

I'm a guy, btw

Well many women can not orgasm from intercourse sex. It happen mostly with foreplay with playing with the clit or oral that brings most women to that magic Big O. Being that you said she doesn't care for oral or finger play this makes this more difficult to achieve a orgasm then. If I can make a subjection try a vibrating toy like a pocket rocket over her clit or a vibrator over her clit and inside her vagina maybe that will help with your girl friend finally achieve this orgasm she is looking for good luck I hope this helps you.

[DonDraper123]

My concern is that she has achieved that friction before, just not with me. So, I'm hoping it's not a physical incompatible thing

[effy2014]

Don:

Motorguy is correct. I have seen statistics that between 50-75% of women do not have vaginal orgasms. That means she needs clitoral stimulation -- hence the clothes on. You can certainly research positions that allow for the most clitoral stimulation.

Why doesn't she like oral? Your tongue is the ultimate in clitoral stimulation. Help her to break down that barrier and you will be able to give her mind blowing orgasms. This is not an issue of incompatibility . . . seems more like her rigidity is preventing her from her own pleasure.

[bootsie]

My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 months. In that time, we've had sex multiple times, but never once as she reached an orgasm. I'm her fourth total partner. She didn't never had her first orgasm until she discovered a specific type of friction with her second partner. She has to find that friction every time or nothing will happen. It's easier for her with clothes on than off.

She doesn't enjoy finger play or oral. She said she has tried different things, but cannot find that friction level with me. I know that she is committed to me and we have known each other for years. I'm afraid that we won't be able to fix this and what that will lead to.

What can I or we do to fix this?

I'm a guy, btw

Man,Motorguy is right. I have been thru the same thing with a woman who I am FWB with and she has never had an orgasm from having intercourse with any of the guys she have been with including me,So what I did one night is I just kept doing foreplay on her and did different things while doing that.I used my hands,fingers and a few different vibes,then one night it happened.I gave her her an orgasm from using my fingers and a vibe on her and she was blown away because of that.So from then on whenever we get together to have sex.I would do all of that to her and help her to have all the orgasms that way first and then afterwards,we would have intercourse so I can get off.
Please!! don't give up yet,just continue to try different things(vibes or other toys she might like) until you find the right thing to cause her to orgasm.

[DonDraper123]

Man,Motorguy is right. I have been thru the same thing with a woman who I am FWB with and she has never had an orgasm from having intercourse with any of the guys she have been with including me,So what I did one night is I just kept doing foreplay on her and did different things while doing that.I used my hands,fingers and a few different vibes,then one night it happened.I gave her her an orgasm from using my fingers and a vibe on her and she was blown away because of that.So from then on whenever we get together to have sex.I would do all of that to her and help her to have all the orgasms that way first and then afterwards,we would have intercourse so I can get off.
Please!! don't give up yet,just continue to try different things(vibes or other toys she might like) until you find the right thing to cause her to orgasm.

Vibes?

[Patti-here]

Vibes?

A Vibrator..

[DonDraper123]

Yeah...that one was obvious. I'm an idiot.

[Patti-here]

Yeah...that one was obvious. I'm an idiot.

LOL, no worries

Have you tried oral sex on her ?

[Something_Awesome]

G Spot orgasm is harder to achieve... Do you know where her G Spot is? It should be at the "roof" inside of her. I've noticed that for me that for me to hit her G Spot, I have to do it at an angle that is a little less pleasurable (feeling wise) for me.