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  • Baboy
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2012
    • 774

    Alas jen, I am the proverbial babe in the woods on that score. No thoughts against it. Just never thought of it on my own, and no one I have ever been with initiated it, hinted at it, etc. Makes me wonder if any of them were waiting for me to take the lead and I disappointed them. Might just be time in my present relationship to turn a new leaf. My wife is always open to ideas and neither of us has any hang-ups about body parts, what can go where, touch what, etc.
    I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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    • Patti-here
      Banned
      • Mar 2014
      • 2602

      She's probably waiting on you to initiate it BB, it's a bit difficult to just blurt out 'how about licking out my bumhole'

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      • Baboy
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2012
        • 774

        You are right Patti. We have done anal, with a fair measure of satisfaction, but only because she said she'd be willing if I was. Had it not been for her speaking up, it would never have happened. On this one, she might feel it's my turn. Time to take the plunge, so to speak, I suppose.
        I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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        • Patti-here
          Banned
          • Mar 2014
          • 2602

          Well if you're interested in doing it, then just take the plunge.

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          • jen1447
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2013
            • 2380

            Have you got the cleanliness routine down? Warm wet towel with mild soap followed by a soapless warm wet towel and then a nice pat down with a warm dry one. Do be thorough - anywhere you think you might get too orally should have the pampering pre-treatment. A nice tidy shave is really a must too.

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            • Patti-here
              Banned
              • Mar 2014
              • 2602

              Well yes cleanliness is a must, but you don't have to take it to extremes, what Jen described is perfect.

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              • Baboy
                Veteran Member
                • Aug 2012
                • 774

                Thanks kids, I am listening.
                I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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                • Patti-here
                  Banned
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 2602

                  Originally posted by Baboy
                  Thanks kids, I am listening.
                  Listening for what BB, more cleanliness tip's ?? Lol, they're really aren't anymore, again hon, it's a simple matter of warm soapy water, and everything is fine.

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                  • Something_Awesome
                    Veteran Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 1219

                    Originally posted by Baboy
                    Thanks kids, I am listening.
                    Don't tell her you're going to do it. Tell her you want to eat her out while she is in doggy and then move your mouth to the bum when she has been aroused enough while still stimulating the clit. You can put fingers in her pink taco (and hit the g spot) and put your thumb on the clit while your mouth is on her star fish. This would be a good approach if she is in the doggy position.

                    pink taco = vagina
                    star fish = anus

                    Just an FYI.
                    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                    • Patti-here
                      Banned
                      • Mar 2014
                      • 2602

                      Hmmmm, never thought I'd say this, but perfect SumSum, you get a gold star for that

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