[Something_Awesome]

btw I assume SAGF laughs at you and mocks you as part of her degradation kink.

I do not know it is a kink because she is genuinely smiling/laughing. It's not a villainous laugh if that's what you're wondering. I mean, I generally never flinch for anything. I am hard to scare, startle, whatever. She's getting a response from me she hasn't seen before. Her laugh is not a play laugh, it is genuine. I do not know if she is laughing at me or her "power." I shoud ask.

Sometimes, I can get pretty tense when she makes me anticipate a hit. Sometimes, I want her to punch my balls while, at the same time, I don't want her to punch them (it's weird). My guess is that your BF is more tolerant than I am.

I may have to rethink my promise not to seduce her lol - think I'm falling in love. Where do you live again?

Oh no! Jenzilla is coming! There are plenty of other women to steal outside of The Valley. Why come here and steal mine? I doubt you could steal her. My GF's mom is very very sharp and street smart. She put a lesbian barrier around her that you can't get through. I more convinced now than before. Had my doubts before, but the subject has become like beating a dead horse between me and her (got to that point thanks to your claims) and I am pretty certain now that she can't be converted.

does she ever talk about beating you in other ways or does she play around with other kink like that? I've 'slapped around' the BF before, which is actually pretty hot. (And before anyone gets scared, yes it's sex play and consensual.)

Um. She talks about restraining me pretty often. She likes to bite the shoulders, neck, and my lips. Have to be careful with the lips because she's made them bleed before. Also have to be careful with the neck. I don't need to walk around with "battle scars." Shoulders I don't really care about. It's tougher flesh . She does not bite a lot. Biting is not the meat and potatoes of the kink, it's more like a light seasoning.

She has done some slapping, but she is scared to slap me really hard (yes, even though she hits my balls). I wouldn't mind if she slapped me outside of sex to be honest. Maybe yell something at me in a foreign language when she is mad at me and then slap me really hard

She and I both love it when she pulls my hair... Hard... Looooooove it.

[jen1447]

I do not know if she is laughing at me or her "power." I shoud ask.

That's a good point. My guess is it's a combination - the laughing at you is a game (she 'likes' degrading you but she doesn't actually want to degrade you), but the giddy over her power thing is real. It's a heady feeling to know you have so much pull that you can actually hurt someone (or threaten to) and have them like it. You're not running away, you're just standing pat and taking it ....for her. She feels the love.

Sometimes, I can get pretty tense when she makes me anticipate a hit. Sometimes, I want her to punch my balls while, at the same time, I don't want her to punch them (it's weird). My guess is that your BF is more tolerant than I am.

I think the contradiction is a big part of the appeal. Who really wants to get hit in the balls? Nobody normally, but when it's a hot woman who you love, suddenly painful stuff you'd normally avoid becomes okay.

Oh no! Jenzilla is coming! There are plenty of other women to steal outside of The Valley. Why come here and steal mine? I doubt you could steal her. My GF's mom is very very sharp and street smart. She put a lesbian barrier around her that you can't get through. I more convinced now than before. Had my doubts before, but the subject has become like beating a dead horse between me and her (got to that point thanks to your claims) and I am pretty certain now that she can't be converted.

Wait - did you actually tell her I was coming for her?

She has done some slapping, but she is scared to slap me really hard (yes, even though she hits my balls). I wouldn't mind if she slapped me outside of sex to be honest. Maybe yell something at me in a foreign language when she is mad at me and then slap me really hard

She and I both love it when she pulls my hair... Hard... Looooooove it.

Somehow a beautiful woman yelling at you in a foreign language does sound really hot lol. I think she could probably be convinced to dish it out full strength, just explain to her what it's for. Jeez, how can this woman get any better? (swoon)

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I think she associates slapping with domestic violence. That is why she can't really do it.

She can't get better because she kisses me know after I've given her oral (don't know if you remember that I had that issue).

Just a side note. I like the balls hitting more than eating out her butt (both are relatively new to us). Ranks higher in my opinion. Though butt eating is now a staple part of our sexy time. Oh, btw, the sticking my tongue in while sucking worked really well

[jen1447]

Yeah, that's almost always a winner. Good job.

I guess you can look at all these sex acts in a general sense as something you do together, but in particular I'd think the balls are more for you and the bum is more for her, so it's hard to really compare them unless you're saying you like getting better than giving - which I know you don't.

lol - does she kiss you after bum oral too?

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lol - does she kiss you after bum oral too?

Y'know what? I have not paid attention to that. You don't kiss after someone gives you bum oral?

[Elena_EvilEye]

WOW Jen YOU GO GIRL!. I like my husband's package his penis is 7.5 inches long and 6.2 in girth but his balls are fairly big and look juicy . I love observing his package when he is erect as it represents his masculinity and how manly he is. I only really hit it or abuse it when we are fooling around with each other (yes even as husband and wife we still act like 14 year olds at times) this is the only time I can have power over him as he is way stronger than me physically he can pick me up like I'm a loaf of bread. It's funny as I am ready to make my move he is backing off and he's nervous that his manhood will get hurt.

I sometimes when I give him Fellatio have the odd lick of his balls but not often because I don't want ball hair in my mouth

[Something_Awesome]

My GF has grown out her hair for me (she used to go bald down there) and if I get any strand of hair in my mouth I swallow it

Good source of fiber.

[jen1447]

lmao.

Elena, yay - another ball buster! Welcome. (And btw, get him to shave those things.)

SumSum - I absolutely kiss after bum oral. Some women have a hangup about that tho, I've known a few whose men insist on eating them up who aren't real big fans but let it happen anyway (don't really get that but whatever), and the condition they have for it is no kissing until some crazy decontamination of his mouth has occurred. wtf.

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Yea, the no kissing rule is such a mood killer (assuming you go in for a kiss and get rejected).

[jen1447]

Punched balls, round 2, complete!

SumSum, I hope you jumped right back on the bandwagon after the texting crisis.