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  • JonDoe
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 444

    Spanking: Love it or hate it?

    Ladies, do you like to be spanked? If so, what makes it so good?
    11
    Love it!!
    45.45%
    5
    I let him spank me because he likes it.
    18.18%
    2
    Meh, does nothing for me either way.
    27.27%
    3
    Hate it!
    9.09%
    1
    He knows better than to pull that stunt!
    0.00%
    0
  • Patti-here
    Banned
    • Mar 2014
    • 2602

    Love it under the right circumstances. gets me warmed up.

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    • CapeCRunner
      Veteran Member
      • Apr 2014
      • 242

      I agree with Patti. When it's unexpected and once in a while then yeah I like it. Every so often is good for me.

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      • jen1447
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 2380

        I'm pretty indifferent really. I'm not one to receive any spankings generally, and doing the spanking never really appealed to me. I'm always game if it get's you going tho.

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        • atskitty2
          Assistant Admin
          • Aug 2013
          • 4467

          I like the idea of it, problem is that any time it's been done it just doesn't seem to go with the flow of things. Seemed out of place or forced somehow. Then it's a distraction and that's just no fun.

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          • Patti-here
            Banned
            • Mar 2014
            • 2602

            A spanking to us is just a part of foreplay, I could never give a spanking, but my G/F does spank me, when she sees I'm feeling frisky and in the mood

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            • JonDoe
              Veteran Member
              • Sep 2010
              • 444

              Are we talking a light love tap kind of spanking? Or does it have to be hard enough to give a jolt that runs up the spine?

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              • Patti-here
                Banned
                • Mar 2014
                • 2602

                Just enough to make it pink and warm..

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                • effy2014
                  Veteran Member
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 1777

                  SO likes it . . . needs it sometimes . . . during some anal play. I never do it hard enough and probably never will. Given some of the violence in her life in her late teens and early 20s it surprised me that she likes it. I had to be convinced she really wanted me to do it.
                  "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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                  • JonDoe
                    Veteran Member
                    • Sep 2010
                    • 444

                    Sounds like she totally trusts you, thus she is able to separate her past from the present.

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