[kira]

It's possible stomach issues or the cause of them is getting in the way some. Anxiety and stress can cause stomach problems and anxiety and stress can cause sex and relationship issues. Despite the fact sex helps with stress many people don't want to do it. You start to feel like it takes too much energy and concern to do things with another person. Just masturbating is much easier mentally and physically. Add in some insecurities and things can go south. If he's constantly having discomfort whether from direct pain or from anxiety induced pain he needs to see a doctor. Other than that better communication and confidence are pretty much the solution. As hard as that is to change.

[effy2014]

I've also thought that might help us sexually i just wasn't sure. I'll have to work on that more.

I've always like doing it with the lights off. But about the second week of us being together I started getting comfortable during the day time when he could see me, but I worked at a call center and have no time to exercise then I started gaining weight and on top of that I gained relationship weight so I got even bigger.

He says that he doesn't care about my body weight. He says that I'm not that fat and that I still always look beautiful. I still didn't like how I looked especially when my belly got this horrible red marks. I don't let him see me anymore. I let my ******** hang All the time so he can see them but that's about it. I don't like my stomach so we keep on doing it with the lights off or with my rob on if we were doing it on the couch.

Things make more sense now. There are two sexually stressed out people in this relationship. The two of you need to build up trust in each other and great sex will follow. You are who you are at the moment. To try to hide yourself from someone that loves you is a shame. For a moment, think of it from his perspective. Could this make him feel that you do not love him?

The two of you need to communicate, and fast. Tell him about your issues. Encourage him to work through his issues with you. It's the only way to make it work.

[aura969]

Sometimes they like to do things on their own, it doesn’t seem to be that big of a problem. You can try to do the same in front of him, maybe that will turn him on. Or you can seek the advice of a couples therapist or an astrologer about your compatibility and what can be done to fix the situation.