[CHANDLERS WISH]

Age is but a number, I wouldn't worry about how old we are verses how old you are.

Can I ask where you are from? Just curious

[kira]

Many people do some type of anal and many straight guys have anal toys. Fisting is a little extreme for most but it's far from the kinkiest thing out there. Your friends and family don't need to know your entire sex life. If you need someone to talk to your husband is the best person or you can always get advice online but it's going to involve opinions from every angle including those with a stricter view of sexual activities. It's really your opinion and your husband's opinion that count.

[jennypenny]

24, Kazahstan. Maybe those things are normal for non religious people with Western world philosophy where moral values are so stretched or there are none.

[DreamP346]

24, Kazahstan. Maybe those things are normal for non religious people with Western world philosophy where moral values are so stretched or there are none.

Jenny, the Western world does have moral values. They just differ from other parts of the world. We may value individual rights and freedom versus other cultures may value family dynamics and social codes. That does not mean we do not have morals.

To answer your question, don't presume what other's are doing in the bedroom. It doesn't matter what part of the world or culture you inspect, people do some incredibly kinky stuff behind closed doors. Why do you think they have existed so long? Why do you think a conservative culture such as India has an ancient book on sex (the Kamasutra). Why do you think courtesans were so popular in Europe and East Asia. Why does a culture like Japan have a whole social group of women who are trained in the art of sex from a young age. Trust me, kinky sex is happening everyday and every where. The difference is that you may perceive Western cultures to be more vocal about them.

[Claret]

Ahem, firstly it's spelled Kazakhstan, and secondly that country is comprised of Religions: Kazakhstan is a secular state, but Sunni Islam is the major religion (47% of believers). The Russian Orthodox Church is the dominant Christian church (44%). There are also Protestant (2%), Roman Catholic (1%) and more than 40 other religious confessions.

Having said that, these are the same religions that make up the Western World, perhaps just in different percentages.

Don't assume that the difference between having the freedom to speak of sexuality and being sexual is an immoral state. I personally find that remark offensive.

Quite frankly I find this entire post to be highly suspect. The way you write and express yourself is clearly from a person educated in the Western World so would find your statement to be akin to the pot calling the kettle black.

[jennypenny]

Jenny, the Western world does have moral values. They just differ from other parts of the world. We may value individual rights and freedom versus other cultures may value family dynamics and social codes. That does not mean we do not have morals.

To answer your question, don't presume what other's are doing in the bedroom. It doesn't matter what part of the world or culture you inspect, people do some incredibly kinky stuff behind closed doors. Why do you think they have existed so long? Why do you think a conservative culture such as India has an ancient book on sex (the Kamasutra). Why do you think courtesans were so popular in Europe and East Asia. Why does a culture like Japan have a whole social group of women who are trained in the art of sex from a young age. Trust me, kinky sex is happening everyday and every where. The difference is that you may perceive Western cultures to be more vocal about them.

sp346, thank you for your honest answer, I am not sure what to think after your words, they all make sense, but contradicts with my cultural beliefs. Shall I doubt my culture, where sex is almost forbidden subject, but anal sex is one of the biggest sins and we are not talking women putting her hand in man's body.

[jennypenny]

Ahem, firstly it's spelled Kazakhstan, and secondly that country is comprised of Religions: Kazakhstan is a secular state, but Sunni Islam is the major religion (47% of believers). The Russian Orthodox Church is the dominant Christian church (44%). There are also Protestant (2%), Roman Catholic (1%) and more than 40 other religious confessions.

Having said that, these are the same religions that make up the Western World, perhaps just in different percentages.

Don't assume that the difference between having the freedom to speak of sexuality and being sexual is an immoral state. I personally find that remark offensive.

Quite frankly I find this entire post to be highly suspect. The way you write and express yourself is clearly from a person educated in the Western World so would find your statement to be akin to the pot calling the kettle black.

Dear Wikipedia thank you for useful information about KazaKHstan

[Claret]

Dear Wikipedia thank you for useful information about KazaKHstan

My statement, in part was not from Wikipedia, but rather was from

Statement by Kazakhstan on explanation of position at the 80th plenary meeting of the UNGA

Some of us can read beyond and have knowledge of things outside of Wikipedia.

Before this disintegrates any more I'm saying s'long on this topic.

[jennypenny]

Dear Claret, your insight from "Statement by Kazakhstan on explanation of position at the 80th plenary meeting of the UNGA " especially helped to sort out mental issues I have with fact that I have fisted my husband and I feel that it is completely wrong, but same time I am afraid to think that I liked it ? Anyway if you feel that your knowledge outside the Wiki can bring some light, please feel free to state more relevant facts and figures.

PS. Claret, please do not get me wrong.

[Claret]

You do what you wish, this is why this is a free forum. I have NOT commented on your situation, nor will I.

PS I don't take anything personally here. I hope you sort out your mental issues as you have stated here.