[effy2014]

There is not much more we can say. Most, if not all of those who commented live in the West and believe that consenting adults can agree to have a robust sex life. If you refuse to talk about it with your husband and want to be controlled by the cultural and moral views of others, then you will live in shame and never have answers. Liberate yourself and communicate with your husband. Your marriage will greatly benefit.

[bubba29]

bubba29, thank you for your advice, but we do not discuss sex with my second half.

you are on the wrong board honey. many, if not all the people on this thread said to talk about it with your life partner. i think maybe you should be on a message board where they tell you what you did was a sin, you should go to confessional, ask for forgiveness, and never speak of it again. sorry you just aren't gonna get that advice here.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Jenny, what nationality is your Husband? You don't discuss sex with him? What about your previous partners did you discuss sex with them?

I also heard that in your culture the main meat to eat is "rabbit" not sure that I could do that.... Just a by the by comment.

[rcoreyus]

No I'm straight, and as I mentioned, not particularly kinky. I have no objection to people who are gay or kinky, just don't happen to be myself.

This thread has gotten into discussions of the "morality" of various forms of sex, and that is something people will never agree on. Personally I believe that any activity that causes no harm to anyone is acceptable. That isn't as simple as it sounds because there can be very complex long term relationship effects from (for example) having sex with multiple partners, so "harm" is not easy to define.

I understand that many people have religious beliefs or follow social conventions that find some types or maybe all sex to be immoral. I can't and won't argue with someone else's beliefs. Just keep in mind that for the world to be a peaceful place everyone should accept a wider range of behaviors in others than they believe is OK for themselves - otherwise there will always be conflicts at the moral boundaries.

Some people are concerned that jenny penny isn't what she seems. Maybe. This is the internet and so I never make any assumptions that anyone is what they claim to be. As long as they are polite and have something interesting to say, I'm happy to discuss - whether or not their situation is real, the discussion may apply to others.

rcoreyus, thank you for you comment, it is sounds like you have a lot of experience especially in fisting subject, I understood it from your comment "lso, women's hands are a lot smaller than men's, so it isn't such a stretch " do you do it yourself ? Are you gay?

[jns]

24, Kazahstan.

According to Wictionary, Kazahstan can be a proper spelling in Romanian, Serbo-Croatian and Slovene.

[Stillness]

Thanks, jns. Let's give the benefit of the doubt.

[bootsie]

We have been married for 5 years and 3 months. Our sex life was normal, I mean nothing special, but we love each other a lot. Usually my husband does not drink, only on very rare occasions; he likes to do sport a lot. I am not a big drinker myself, but last month we went to a wedding party and somehow decided to get totally drunk.
We came back home and started to have drunk sex and at some point I said something like “I will do anything you want” or something like that.
I am not sure what happened, but after couple minutes my hand was inside my husband, I am not sure how it’s happened, but he was moving on my fist and it went so deep, It was not scary or awful for that moment I think I was too drunk to understand, so I continue to let him ride on my arm.
At some point he took my hand out and put his sperm inside me, I have not seen so much sperm for a long time and after that he asked me to give it back to him. I could understand what he wants, he just pull me to his face and started to eat his own sperm.
Next day was as usual, I was too ashamed to speak with him about it, but he was normal like nothing happened.
BUT I DO NOT understand how my arm went into his … almost up to elbow, so he was practising without me knowing a lot? Why he was eating his sperm is he gay? Why after 5 years I have no idea who my husband is? But now when we are having sex, I can’t top thinking about his ************ and my hand in it… I think there is something wrong with me, I want to feel his body inside again, but it is completely wrong.
Maybe somebody knows what to do and how to fight this problem.

I am SOoo!! sorry,But I don't understand exactlly what the hold conversation is about here or What Jennypenny is asking..I am alittle confused.Someone mind explanding alittle? Thanks

[jen1447]

I will "expland the hold conversation" ....jennypenny and her husband got drunk and she "fisted" him - put her entire arm (apparently) into his anus. Then he ejaculated (in her vagina I think) and ate his sperm from inside her. jennypenny was very confused by all this despite being an enthusiastic participant and is now wondering if her husband is a homosexual because he likes objects in his rectum and he likes eating his own sperm. It's apparently not normal to do this in Kazakhstan. It's also apparently considered immoral there and she's wondering if she should feel guilty based on a western interpretation of what a Kazakhstan interpretation of sexual mores in Kazakhstan would be. Kazahkstan may also be spelled "Kazahstan," depending on who you ask. That's pretty much it.

[bootsie]

I will "expland the hold conversation" ....jennypenny and her husband got drunk and she "fisted" him - put her entire arm (apparently) into his anus. Then he ejaculated (in her vagina I think) and ate his sperm from inside her. jennypenny was very confused by all this despite being an enthusiastic participant and is now wondering if her husband is a homosexual because he likes objects in his rectum and he likes eating his own sperm. It's apparently not normal to do this in Kazakhstan. It's also apparently considered immoral there and she's wondering if she should feel guilty based on a western interpretation of what a Kazakhstan interpretation of sexual mores in Kazakhstan would be. Kazahkstan may also be spelled "Kazahstan," depending on who you ask. That's pretty much it.

Thanks Jen for explaining it,But why would she feel confused and ashame for something that her and her husband enjoyed?In my opinion,I don't think he is a homosexual because he liked her putting something in his anus and eating his sperm out of her.As you know,I am a male and I love it when one of the women I see put her finger in my anus and tongue me there as well and I am a straight guy who likes women ONLY!!.I do have a question though:How can someone put their hold fist or arm up in someones anus.Never heard of anyone doing that before.Seems like to me that would hurt like "Hell".Now I have heard of someone putting their fist in a woman's vagina and I have even had a female doctor to tell me that that really can be done that if the person who is doing it know how to do it right,but not in someone's anus.

[jen1447]

It's definitely done in the more ....dungeon-like corners of the world/internet. jennypenny will have to explain the rest.