[Frankie0701]

My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with sex lately. Whenever we have sex we usually have to wait a couple day's before we can have sex again because of the pain. It's an awful rip like feeling. He's a bit large, so before we dive into sex we always do foreplay........ maybe not enough lol.

[Natalie1962]

It sounds like your boyfriend needs to take it much more slowly and give you a lot more stimulation in order to relax you, especially if he is large. Though there can be a man that is just too large for you, you should be able to accommodate most men's penis without pain if patience is used. Try using a lot of lubricant and then getting on top and lowering yourself onto him. That will give you control on how deep he can go. That used to help me when I was younger and was first starting to have sex. Even today after many years of sex (I'm 52) I still meet men now and then who are just too darn big and they will hurt me if I let them take me in the missionary position. In those cases I always get on top to control things and usually by the end of the night I'm able to take their entire length inside of me without much difficulty. However, had they just entered me it would have been pure hell.

Natalie

[cathy23]

I think if you take it easy in the beginning your vagina will adapt to a larger penis.

[Motorguy]

My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with sex lately. Whenever we have sex we usually have to wait a couple day's before we can have sex again because of the pain. It's an awful rip like feeling. He's a bit large, so before we dive into sex we always do foreplay........ maybe not enough lol.

Well maybe have some lubes with you and used them when you going to have intercourse. To help with the pain of sex and don't rely on just natural lubes and spit with intercourse this may help with the soreness after sex Frankie.

[cathy23]

plenty of foreplay and lube works wonders.

[beethovengenius]

Also make sure there is no low grade infection. And by the way just out of curiosity how large is his penis?

[Baboy]

And by the way just out of curiosity how large is his penis?

Oh yes! The whole forum is waiting with bated breath on that one! It is a sina qua non of being a female member here that one know to the millimeter the dimensions of one's partner's member, in both flaccid and erect states. We want to know, yea demand to know, all: length, girth and, of paramount importance, relative hardness. Kindly provide at least Mohs and Brinell scale readings.

We are all atwitter in anticipation of your early reply!

[Baboy]

It is a sina qua non

And it's a sine qua non of writing Latin that one spell correctly. Sorry for the above gaff!

[Claret]

Oh yes! The whole forum is waiting with bated breath on that one! It is a sina qua non of being a female member here that one know to the millimeter the dimensions of one's partner's member, in both flaccid and erect states. We want to know, yea demand to know, all: length, girth and, of paramount importance, relative hardness. Kindly provide at least Mohs and Brinell scale readings.

We are all atwitter in anticipation of your early reply!

For some, not for all.

[effy2014]

Kindly provide at least Mohs and Brinell scale readings.

We are all atwitter in anticipation of your early reply!

Ouch on the Mohs and Brinell scale tests. With what would you indent a penis?

Methinks you also need a more sarcastic font.