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  • Something_Awesome
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    • Apr 2014
    • 1219

    Sex in the morning after you've woken up next to your SO?

    Hey everyone, this isn't really a question as much as it is a poll...

    Last Sunday when I woke up next to my GF we cuddled for an extended period of time (maybe 45 min to an hour while with my morning wood lol) and then made love. I say "love" because this was not just sex. There were no gimmicks (like ball hitting). It was genuine love making, and it was amazing.

    The only thing is, right when I woke up I could feel my breath was kickin' something fierce! I usually don't have a morning breath issue, but for whatever reason I did this past Sunday. I didn't even have to smell it. I just knew it was going to smell bad. So from waking up til the end of our love making (which was almost 2 hours combined with the cuddling) I kept my mouth closed and only breathed through my nose to ensure she could not smell anything. I did not say a word to my GF nor did I open my mouth to kiss her (unless I was around her veejay since, in that area, my mouth would be far from her nose). If I smiled at her, then I did so in a manner that did not show teeth. It wasn't until we were done that I went to brush.

    For those of you that make love after waking up, do you brush first then return to the bed? Do you keep a mint/gum next to you just incase? Do you just keep your mouth close and breath through your nose? Do you think any one practice is very unromantic?

    I personally thought that going to brush right after waking up would have disrupted the flow of things. I feel like when someone next to me wakes up and gets out of bed in the morning that they take something with them; some mysterious energy that does not seem to make it back to the bed when they return.

    What do you guys think/do? Curious to know everyone's approach. I am going to guess a lot of you would brush and then return to bed?
    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447
  • effy2014
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1777

    I get up so much earlier than SO, that it is not an issue. I'm also quite a bot older and (I am laughing as I say this), I'd need to pee.

    If I would like the opportunity to for morning sex, I will generally have been up, brushed, put on a spritz of the cologne that she loves and get back to cuddling before she opens an eye. I think that you can recreate the mood. Not kissing her and being self conscious about my breath would be a mood killer for me. There are gums and breath strips that you can keep by the bed.

    I will also quibble with your definitions. You have revealed enough about your relationship for me to say that it is all making love . . . even the balls beatings.
    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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    • Motorguy
      Veteran Member
      • Mar 2014
      • 3921

      Originally posted by effy2014
      I get up so much earlier than SO, that it is not an issue. I'm also quite a bot older and (I am laughing as I say this), I'd need to pee.

      If I would like the opportunity to for morning sex, I will generally have been up, brushed, put on a spritz of the cologne that she loves and get back to cuddling before she opens an eye. I think that you can recreate the mood. Not kissing her and being self conscious about my breath would be a mood killer for me. There are gums and breath strips that you can keep by the bed.

      I will also quibble with your definitions. You have revealed enough about your relationship for me to say that it is all making love . . . even the balls beatings.
      Well Effy if you over the age of 40 you need to pee in the morning it's just god way of waking your butt up to do that. I agree me and wife have some fun on the weekend with sex in the morning coming back to bed for a bit to have fun for a while.
      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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      • effy2014
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2014
        • 1777

        Originally posted by Motorguy
        Well Effy if you over the age of 40 you need to pee in the morning it's just god way of waking your butt up to do that. I agree me and wife have some fun on the weekend with sex in the morning coming back to bed for a bit to have fun for a while.
        MG, I figured that you would understand, as would many men nearing or older than 50.
        "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by effy2014
          MG, I figured that you would understand, as would many men nearing or older than 50.
          Well yea i am 50 on Sunday, so I know what you saying Effy lol. It's my buildn't alarm clock not day's.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • Something_Awesome
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2014
            • 1219

            GF is an early bird; however, when she sleeps with me (we don't live together) she says she sleeps like a rock. She calls me her sleeping pill because she always gets her best rest when she is in the bed with me, and I like that a lot. So when we sleep together I do wake up well before her (otherwise she is up and about at 5 am), but rather than getting out of bed I just cuddle up to her. This wakes her up but she's ok with it.
            "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              Originally posted by Something_Awesome
              GF is an early bird; however, when she sleeps with me (we don't live together) she says she sleeps like a rock. She calls me her sleeping pill because she always gets her best rest when she is in the bed with me, and I like that a lot. So when we sleep together I do wake up well before her (otherwise she is up and about at 5 am), but rather than getting out of bed I just cuddle up to her. This wakes her up but she's ok with it.
              That is a nice thing to say SA she enjoys you there in bed with her and she feels safe and relax that's excellent feeling.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • Something_Awesome
                Veteran Member
                • Apr 2014
                • 1219

                Yup, that's exactly how she says she feels MG. And hearing that is great for us guys because we love affirmation!
                "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                • Motorguy
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 3921

                  Originally posted by Something_Awesome
                  Yup, that's exactly how she says she feels MG. And hearing that is great for us guys because we love affirmation!
                  That is so true we do that for a wife's and girl friends only the guys who really care let me revise that quote lol. It just shows you care for her and love her as well. Along with always being there for her no matter what.
                  When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                  • jns
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                    • Mar 2010
                    • 8398

                    Originally posted by Something_Awesome
                    I did not say a word to my GF nor did I open my mouth to kiss her (unless I was around her veejay since, in that area, my mouth would be far from her nose).
                    Pee, brush, use mouthwash and the return to bed. Its also good to brush and use mouthwash before giving her oral.
                    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                    ...
                    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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