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  • SpicyV
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    • Jun 2014
    • 76

    simultaneous orgasm

    It's one of the best things ever.
  • Something_Awesome
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1219

    Yes it's great. GF and I have had quite a few of those, but more earlier in the relationship than now. It's sort of a challenge to do it now because I don't really use a condom anymore and I just pull out. I don't want her to use birth control, but even if she did, I still would never chance an internal orgasm.

    Sometimes though I wish she was on birth control and that I'd chance an internal orgasm. I still have never had a condomless internal climax. I don't trust birth control enough to do it.
    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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    • jen1447
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 2380

      Go Spicy! Did you share this with your hubs or your boyfriend?

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      • SpicyV
        Member
        • Jun 2014
        • 76

        Ya, with one of the guys I see. Hubby always gets me there before he is done.

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by Something_Awesome
          Yes it's great. GF and I have had quite a few of those, but more earlier in the relationship than now. It's sort of a challenge to do it now because I don't really use a condom anymore and I just pull out. I don't want her to use birth control, but even if she did, I still would never chance an internal orgasm.

          Sometimes though I wish she was on birth control and that I'd chance an internal orgasm. I still have never had a condomless internal climax. I don't trust birth control enough to do it.
          Hey SA just don't relay on the pulling out working all the time. You can get your girl friend pregnant with pre come as well. One of my 4 daughters was born from doing this as a good way of birth control well it don't work my wife still got pregnant.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • Something_Awesome
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2014
            • 1219

            Really??? Crap... you sure you pulled out in time?? I mean, I am really good at it. I researched it and the odds seemed extremely low. We BOTH don't want to go back to using condoms.

            SpicyV, are you on birth control or the guy uses condoms?
            "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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            • jns
              Assistant Admin
              • Mar 2010
              • 8398

              I think that the normal way for simultaneous is for the woman to start orgasming which has vaginal contractions and that puts the guy who is very close over the edge. Some women have mentioned feeling the penis twitch from the guy orgasming. Does that ever start the orgasm in the woman as the guy orgasms?
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • Romy
                Veteran Member
                • Jan 2014
                • 339

                Originally posted by jns
                I think that the normal way for simultaneous is for the woman to start orgasming which has vaginal contractions and that puts the guy who is very close over the edge. Some women have mentioned feeling the penis twitch from the guy orgasming. Does that ever start the orgasm in the woman as the guy orgasms?
                I can feel my guy twitch inside me when he's cumming but it doesn't cause me to cum. If I'm on top and start to cum he will cum as well unless he's in the mood to keep going then he uses restraint to hold off.

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                • shoshannah
                  Veteran Member
                  • Nov 2010
                  • 228

                  Originally posted by jns
                  I think that the normal way for simultaneous is for the woman to start orgasming which has vaginal contractions and that puts the guy who is very close over the edge.
                  That's the way it usually works for us. He says that my emotional reactions as I start my buildup start him on his buildup, so just as I reach orgasm he's either there or very close himself. If he's managed to hang on to that point, my contractions finish him.

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                  • shoshannah
                    Veteran Member
                    • Nov 2010
                    • 228

                    Originally posted by Something_Awesome
                    Yes it's great. GF and I have had quite a few of those, but more earlier in the relationship than now. It's sort of a challenge to do it now because I don't really use a condom anymore and I just pull out. I don't want her to use birth control, but even if she did, I still would never chance an internal orgasm.

                    Sometimes though I wish she was on birth control and that I'd chance an internal orgasm. I still have never had a condomless internal climax. I don't trust birth control enough to do it.
                    SA, I second what motorguy says. Pulling out can be dangerous. I read about people who can do it successfully, but it's still Russian Roulette, and can be frustrating. She needs to be on birth control so you have more safety margin and so you can experience a condomless orgasm in her vagina. My husband swears there's nothing like it.

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