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  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    Load and Recovery

    For the guys out there, just curious what the stats are on some things. Don't be shy and please share honestly - no one really cares anyway and no one knows who you actually are here. Main reason I ask this stuff is that BF seems to be slowing down a bit in some areas, which I think is natural for his age (35). Want to make sure tho. If it turns out everybody's going above and beyond at more advanced ages then I'll send him to his doctor.

    Okay, so how much of a load (I'm talking volume) do you all shoot on average, and how long does it take to recover from ejaculating and being able to ejaculate again?

    I'm pretty sure that if I pushed BF to the limit I could have him ejaculating four times in one day, altho that wouldn't be something he could do every day. He'd probably need a couple days off after a four-fer day. Now this is notably different than just getting it up, which I can have him do pretty much steadily as long as he's not actually ejaculating. It's the obvious solution to the limits with ejaculation, and he's fine with me doing the lion's share of the cumming (and I am too lol, we always have been that way). I will say tho that in our heyday he was probably good for maybe three times a day over a four of five day period. (We had a few of those sorts of runs.) So he is slowing down.

    On volume, I've noticed lately that he's not shooting quite as much. He was never Mr. Bigshot as far as that goes but he was always respectable. I'm seeing a bit less lately, but it's too early to say if it's not just a fluke. If it stays steady this way, I'll look into it more closely. Do any of you know if reduced volume is normal with aging? I guess I never learned about or thought about that before. Do 70 year old men still fire away in quarts, only once per month, or do they slow down that way too? And is it normal to vary in how much there is?

    Ladies can chime in with their husband/partner experiences too. Thanks!
  • SpicyV
    Member
    • Jun 2014
    • 76

    I have 3 ages that I can tell you about. One of the guys I see is 35 also. I only see him once maybe twice a week but there have been times where it was 4 days in a row of 5 or 6 times in a day I have been seeing him for about a year and things haven't changed much. One guy I am seeing is in his early 40's and once and he is done for a few hours or the next day. I saw this guy for a while that was 50 and was like a 30yo in bed. So I guess it just depends on the guy.

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    • Something_Awesome
      Veteran Member
      • Apr 2014
      • 1219

      Originally posted by jen1447
      Okay, so how much of a load (I'm talking volume) do you all shoot on average, and how long does it take to recover from ejaculating and being able to ejaculate again?
      The volume can be a lot if fully recovered. I have not cum in a measuring cup yet tho so I don't know how much a lot is. Though the more I keep doing it without recovering the color and consistency can change from being thick and white (GF calls it Elmer's Glue) to clear and runny. I've gotten to the point where I was shooting total blanks too lol (literally nothing comes out during orgasm).

      I cannot say for sure that my volume has changed over time. Though In a full day I can definitely ejaculate more than 4 times (I am 30) no problem.

      Is he not lasting long enough for you during one session? He sounds perfectly fine TBH.
      "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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      • Motorguy
        Veteran Member
        • Mar 2014
        • 3921

        I think we all know you push your boy friend to the limits for sure Jenn lol. But for me just turning 50 my turn around time after orgasm. Some times I'll stay semi erect if we continue on with the sex with foreplay or intercourse or oral sex.But can orgasm again problem 15 to 20 minutes after I orgasm the first time. The first load is pretty good size it can fill a shot glass 3/4 full. I know this because wife has done this in the bedroom for her being very curious like she is I know it's was very weird shooting off in a shot glass like this but wife gets her kink off knowing this kind of stuff lol. But each load after the first is less each time. The most times in a night was 6 but that was 8 hours at 39 years old all night fun but I can do 3 or 4 now without no problem at all.

        There some 70 year old men who can get it up but probably good for one and done then wait till tomorrow for the next time lol.
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        • jen1447
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2013
          • 2380

          Originally posted by SumSum
          Is he not lasting long enough for you during one session? He sounds perfectly fine TBH.
          No, he's really well conditioned in terms of not cumming, and I can pretty much have him go as long as I want. (He only cums with my permission anyway lol.) Plus like you we actually spend a lot of time with him doing oral and other stuff. He's a very hard worker.

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          • Something_Awesome
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2014
            • 1219

            LOL * the shot glass...

            Jen, does he ask for permission or you just tell him when? My GF just tells me.
            "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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            • bootsie
              Senior Member
              • May 2013
              • 154

              When I was around your BF age,The woman I was having sex with would say tell me that I shoot out more cum than any guy she has ever seen and for as recovering.It didn't ever take me that long to recover before I was ready to go again.I would go 4 to 5 times in a day and when I got to my 4o's.I still ejaculates alot of cum and would have sex 4 times in a day with the same woman and sometimes with a different one.Now that I am in my 50's,things have slowed up and I there is not as much cum and can't go as many times like I use to.

              What I was told,Things get less and less the older a person get.

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              • jen1447
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2013
                • 2380

                Originally posted by SumSum
                Jen, does he ask for permission or you just tell him when? My GF just tells me.
                It depends on what's going on. If he's in a mood to be mistreated or if I'm feeling that way, he might ask or just say he really wants to cum and I'll tell him no and that I need to cum again first (for like the 7th time lol), or I might make him ask and say please or beg, or say no and make him beg to make me cum again instead, etc. Or like SAGF I might just tell him when I'm ready. He never cums without the greenlight tho - at least now that he's really well conditioned. Used to be that he would if he couldn't stop himself and I'd 'punish' him etc. He's a very good doggie now tho.

                It can also be nonverbal, like if I start doing certain things with my body he knows that's the 'okay' sign from me and it's all good.

                On rare occasions I won't let him cum at all just to eff with him, or maybe we'll only have some limited time and I'll take it all for myself and leave him none. (He really likes it lol.) Anybody else do that?

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                • SpicyV
                  Member
                  • Jun 2014
                  • 76

                  Jen147 I do that too. None of the guys I am with just cum. They all tell me when they want to and I tell them yes or no.

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                  • jen1447
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2013
                    • 2380

                    As it should be.

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