[Something_Awesome]

On rare occasions I won't let him cum at all just to eff with him, or maybe we'll only have some limited time and I'll take it all for myself and leave him none. (He really likes it lol.) Anybody else do that?

OMG yes! I love that! She feels really bad though when she does that, even though I like it. It works well because it arouses me more and for some reason I am still convinced that she well let me O. I have not begged though and my GF has not asked me to do it. I have asked before whike doing it and I felt like a pathetic loser. It's not me.... I'm just not there yet...

I feel like I perform better when she does not let me O to be honest. I will say though that this behavior was something I introduced to sort of compliment how she already was during sexy time . Her prior partners were O'ing without permission.

Jen, I think you said that you don't fall in love anymore (or something like that), but I think you genuinely love your BF!

[jen1447]

Of course I do. The only difference really is that I learned how to handle 'love' ....it doesn't control me, I control it.

I agree with the starved performance thing - BF will do whatever it takes at all times and at any time, but I still think he's at his best when he's sex crazed rather than content. It's just more raw and he'll do absolutely anything for me. You should totally beg SAGF btw, she'd love it. It's in her nature to want and need that kind of power, and you giving it away to her voluntary will probably melt her heart.

[a_dub]

I'm 31, but I have the sexual mileage of a 15 year old. I'm doing my best to make up for those last years and I aim to have had as much sex by age 50 as any other 50 year old man! More to the point, I still get random boners sometimes though not as often as my teenage years. I did have one this morning as I got off a train with a bunch of collegues for a work thing. I was all fidgeting around for 15 minutes trying to make this erection go away! Once it subsided I told my buddy and he just laughed about it. I think he may have noticed, lol!

My loads are usually on the smaller side since I "unload" very frequently. I used to masturbate heavily when I was single so that was 10-12 ejaculations a week but now I have sex 4-5x a week and that means anywhere from 12-20 ejaculations every week (vast majority of those on the weekends).

My cum is definitely thicker and more voluminous after abstinence, but the longest I've gone recently is about a week or so. I probably put out a couple of tablespoons of thick creamy product in that case. But usually its about half the volume and more watery/clear, but still whitish.

As far as reloading goes, I can still pop boners 5 mins after ejaculating with my GF. More like 15-20 mins when I was masturbating. So I can easily cum 3 times in an hour. I hope this carries on till my 50s, cuz I will need to reload quickly in order to catch up with people who've been steadily having sex from their teen years.

On rare occasions I won't let him cum at all just to eff with him, or maybe we'll only have some limited time and I'll take it all for myself and leave him none. (He really likes it lol.) Anybody else do that?

Jeez, you blue ball him?!!! Now that's HARSH! But to each his own...

Now when you let him cum, does he cum instantly - indicating he's been holding himself back at will - or does he take some time to get over the edge - indicating that he just naturally lasts a long time?

[HerHusband]

Great question. When I was a teen I could take a girl I thought I was in love with to a no tell motel and in the space of 4-5 hours have 4-5 orgasms and on a couple times 6. I still remember 30 years later walking out of the hotel and my legs were wobbly weak.
Fast forward to my mid 20s its a non steady girlfriend situation mostly and with hookups it twice in an hour and maybe one later.
FF more till I was married from 30-40ish and it turned into a once a few days at best. BUT without sounding like a salesman that was my body slowing down and not all guys have that issue.
FF to a few years ago. I started doing testosterone shots. Pre treatment levels were about 150 total testosterone. Last test I had a couple months ago was 800 total Testosterone and almost 20 FREE testosterone which it the most important number.
NOW as a early 50s guy I can go 2-3 times a day easy depending. Last weekend Saturday mng she gave me a BJ around sunup and we fell back asleep. An hour later I woke her up and we had sex again. Work got in the way or I would have been up her ****** (literally) later that day.
My recovery time is not what it was as a younger man. No surprise. But if the stimulation is there I am going to try to rise to the occasion. As of late married to a woman in her late 40s (and still hot) she is slowing down and I find myself having to masturbate during the day.
I can say that I can go 2-3 times a day every day and a day or two a week Im good for just one. Id say with confidence 2 times a day easy on average and weekends kick in an extra.
My average recovery time between is usually an hour or two but has been as little as 15 minutes but that's rare nowadays.

The real factor is the wife. Its been a while since she has pushed me for every drop and I wish she would.

[jen1447]

Now when you let him cum, does he cum instantly - indicating he's been holding himself back at will - or does he take some time to get over the edge - indicating that he just naturally lasts a long time?

Pretty much instantly, unless I want something different. He's well conditioned now. Some guys like blue balls btw, I think it's actually not far off from ball abuse like SAGF does in that it 'hurts,' which is arousing for the guy. Also the withholding is a psychological turn on.

Hubs - you're pretty respectable for your age, good job.

[muffin70]

Well when i was younger (20 plus yrs ago) I had no problems ejaculating then being able to ejaculate again 5-10 mins later... I think my record was 6 times in one day, and I used to squirt quite a bit… if I was lying down masturbating I could easily squirt over my own chest!
With my ex (& my wife) I suffered from erectile dysfunction – where I could not maintain an erection during sex… but once I overcame that problem I then had the opposite problem – where I orgasm too quickly during sex…. With my ex we would have foreplay and she would make me orgasm, then she would use her vibrator to make herself orgasm – then we would have sex and I’d be able to last a bit longer and orgasm again.
I don’t squirt as much as I used to… I don’t know if that’s because of my diet, getting older, or my type 2 diabetes…. I’d love to be able to squirt like porn star Peter North does… I don’t know what his secret is!

[jen1447]

muffin, never refer to what you do as "squirting." Women squirt, gush, shoot, etc. Men mostly just cum, or if you have to use another word, make it something manly like "unload" or "open fire" or whatever.

I'm pretty sure the volume thing is genetic. At least I've seen quite a variety in volume among men. Even two of the same age for example will have different amounts.

[muffin70]

muffin, never refer to what you do as "squirting." Women squirt, gush, shoot, etc. Men mostly just cum, or if you have to use another word, make it something manly like "unload" or "open fire" or whatever.

I'm pretty sure the volume thing is genetic. At least I've seen quite a variety in volume among men. Even two of the same age for example will have different amounts.

sorry - have always called it shooting my load or squirting my load... maybe that's just a New Zealand thing? Open fire sounds good, although in a post earlier this yest I think I referred to it as 'erupting'.... (I erupted inside my wife)
I know if I have not had any sexual relief for 2 weeks then I suffer from MSB (massive sperm build up) and when I do have sex or masturbate after 2 + weeks then I ejaculate very quickly

[Natalie1962]

From my many years of experience: Giys in their 20s are wonderful in their recovery time. Average time to be fully ready after intercourse is about 45 minutes. Mid 30s probably 2 hours. 40s about the same. At 50 things go bad quickly. One time and they are through and it takes much longer to orgasm. 60 is about the same. The oldest I've been intimate with was when I went to a private party and a 76-year old but I don't think he was normal. His stamina was excellent but he purposely didn't orgasm so he could enjoy himself with other women. He usually waited until the lady woman and believe it or not many wanted to be that woman. But the oldest who actually released his sperm inside of me was 63 to my 35 during a private wife swap with my husband. And yes, my 40-year old husband was intimate with his 62-year old wife. But that being said he did his duty for Queen and Country but was all spent out afterwards.

[Motorguy]

From my many years of experience: Giys in their 20s are wonderful in their recovery time. Average time to be fully ready after intercourse is about 45 minutes. Mid 30s probably 2 hours. 40s about the same. At 50 things go bad quickly. One time and they are through and it takes much longer to orgasm. 60 is about the same. The oldest I've been intimate with was when I went to a private party and a 76-year old but I don't think he was normal. His stamina was excellent but he purposely didn't orgasm so he could enjoy himself with other women. He usually waited until the lady woman and believe it or not many wanted to be that woman. But the oldest who actually released his sperm inside of me was 63 to my 35 during a private wife swap with my husband. And yes, my 40-year old husband was intimate with his 62-year old wife. But that being said he did his duty for Queen and Country but was all spent out afterwards.

i think how long the guy last or takes to recharge the batteries per-say. All depends on the guy everyone is different. I am 50 but can recharge pretty quickly. But after round (1) I will be ready for round 2 with in 15 or 20 mins so in the mean time you can enjoy some oral along with other pleasurable other stuff can be done when you ready to get rev up again for round (2) lol.