[Natalie1962]

Because of my open relationship with my husband, I've been able to experiment sexually more than most women. I've been intimate with many kinds of men with all their different body shapes, penis sizes, smells, and looks. During our swinging days when we would meet other couples together, I got my first taste of a much younger man. It was a younger couple in their early 20s. My husband and I were both in our early 40s. Though I wouldn't call being in your 40s old by any stretch of the imagination it must have looked ancient to the younger couple. However, we hit it off and met a few times before we became intimate with each other. Up until that day the only men I'd been with were ones who were close to my age so I really didn't notice a difference in sex since we were all aging at about the same pace.

Meeting that younger couple really opened my eyes to see how much I'd actually aged myself. I was embarrassed to have him look at my naked body so I tried to hide myself underneath the sheet. He wouldn't have any of that and he coaxed me into seeing me in my "full glory." I admit I really enjoyed having a younger man look at me and tell me I was beautiful (I know I wasn't hideous but I did have some extra weight on me). When he started his foreplay I felt wonderful that so young a man was enjoying my body.

By the time he was ready to mount me I felt so open to him and fully trusted him. It was a wonderful feeling having such a young, hard body parting your legs, getting on top of you and feeling him pushing inside with his very hard and erect male member. The sex was absolutely enjoyable and I loved having his hard body on top of mine. I was actually disappointed when it was all over even though I'd had an orgasm with his penis alone (as I normally do with most men).

That was our only time we met with them. I don't think the wife had as good of a time with my husband as I did with her husband. Oh well. From then on I was hooked.

I'm 52-years old now and still have no trouble attracting younger men to rendezvous with (with my husband's excited consent). I know the reality of my age, but for a few pleasant hours when I'm being intimate with a younger man, I can just relax and be myself.

Has anyone else felt or done the same? And if you're shocked, just read my profile as I explain more about my lifestyle choice.

Natalie

[Motorguy]

Because of my open relationship with my husband, I've been able to experiment sexually more than most women. I've been intimate with many kinds of men with all their different body shapes, penis sizes, smells, and looks. During our swinging days when we would meet other couples together, I got my first taste of a much younger man. It was a younger couple in their early 20s. My husband and I were both in our early 40s. Though I wouldn't call being in your 40s old by any stretch of the imagination it must have looked ancient to the younger couple. However, we hit it off and met a few times before we became intimate with each other. Up until that day the only men I'd been with were ones who were close to my age so I really didn't notice a difference in sex since we were all aging at about the same pace.

Meeting that younger couple really opened my eyes to see how much I'd actually aged myself. I was embarrassed to have him look at my naked body so I tried to hide myself underneath the sheet. He wouldn't have any of that and he coaxed me into seeing me in my "full glory." I admit I really enjoyed having a younger man look at me and tell me I was beautiful (I know I wasn't hideous but I did have some extra weight on me). When he started his foreplay I felt wonderful that so young a man was enjoying my body.

By the time he was ready to mount me I felt so open to him and fully trusted him. It was a wonderful feeling having such a young, hard body parting your legs, getting on top of you and feeling him pushing inside with his very hard and erect male member. The sex was absolutely enjoyable and I loved having his hard body on top of mine. I was actually disappointed when it was all over even though I'd had an orgasm with his penis alone (as I normally do with most men).

That was our only time we met with them. I don't think the wife had as good of a time with my husband as I did with her husband. Oh well. From then on I was hooked.

I'm 52-years old now and still have no trouble attracting younger men to rendezvous with (with my husband's excited consent). I know the reality of my age, but for a few pleasant hours when I'm being intimate with a younger man, I can just relax and be myself.

Has anyone else felt or done the same? And if you're shocked, just read my profile as I explain more about my lifestyle choice.

Natalie

I am not shocked Natalie, everyone lives and does stuff differently in there marriage life if you are happy with your life style as your husband is ok with it you not hurting no one then. I say have fun and enjoy yourself it's not my place to say nothing bad or if it's wrong, because many married couples have open marriages and are very happy in them so just be safe and enjoy your self is my only thing to say.

[jen1447]

Why do you think of yourself as old at 52 Natalie? A 20s - 50s thing doesn't strike my as being outside the bounds of good taste or anything like that, even if it's not the norm, and the age difference really isn't extreme. (Id' say an 18 year old and a 70 year old might be extreme, for example. 25 and 48, not really.) Anyway I plan to still be at my peak in my fifties.

[jns]

I don't think the wife had as good of a time with my husband as I did with her husband.

Why is that? Did your husband have all of the skills to get a younger woman to have fun while having sex? You said that you usually have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Does that mean that your husband never really polished his oral skills with the ladies?

Anyhow, I think it's great that you enjoy sex with much younger men and they enjoy sex with you. I wish I would have had that experience when I was younger.

[CoolBreeze]

I am happy to know that you enjoy a healthy and open minded relation with your hubby's consent. It's perfectly natural for the tendencies that you have mentioned. Perhaps we could exchange ideas.

[atskitty2]

So is it just the age difference that you're seeking feedback on? I think the negativity attached to wider age gaps is largely cultural and influenced by some other factors, such as perceived predatory behavior. I don't think there's really anything wrong with what you're doing, and it's hardly shocking.

Enjoy yourself and your sexuality.

[Motorguy]

So is it just the age difference that you're seeking feedback on? I think the negativity attached to wider age gaps is largely cultural and influenced by some other factors, such as perceived predatory behavior. I don't think there's really anything wrong with what you're doing, and it's hardly shocking.

Enjoy yourself and your sexuality.

Very true Kitty and well said as long as both party in full agreement. Nothing is wrong with it just as long everyone is over the age of consent.

[jilljames8184]

Same here, I am 53 and my lover is a college senior. We both make each other feel pretty amazing. My husband even watches. With age comes experience!

[Natalie1962]

Why is that? Did your husband have all of the skills to get a younger woman to have fun while having sex? You said that you usually have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Does that mean that your husband never really polished his oral skills with the ladies?

Anyhow, I think it's great that you enjoy sex with much younger men and they enjoy sex with you. I wish I would have had that experience when I was younger.

When I said that the wife probably didn't have a good of a time with my husband than I did with hers I say that because of her mood when she left and from what my husband said that she just didn't seem that into it. I don't think it was my husband's fault. I believe there was some unspoken issues with the other couple. Perhaps the wife wasn't totally convinced that swinging was all right for them or maybe she still didn't like her husband being too eager to be with another woman. Maybe she didn't like hearing me moaning (we were in separate rooms but nearby with the doors open and that set her off.

Swinging is something that can be wonderful; however, both have to be absolutely sure they are ok with it or it can be destructive.

Natalie

[Natalie1962]

I suppose growing up in the 60s and 70s, the idea that someone my grandmother's age might bed a 20-year old was unthinkable. I could barely imagine the idea that my mother and my father had sex (Yuck!). That's why I probably feel a bit awkward at times when I'm being intimate with a young man and my deep fear is that when I disrobe for the first time for one of these young men will be so shocked at my body he won't be able to get an erection and leave me in shame. I don't obsess with that thought but it is there in the back of my mind. So far I've got nothing but eyes of delight upon being seen naked for the first time, even by the 22-year old last year when I was 51.

Natalie