I've been married to my husband for 6yrs. We have always been very active when it comes to sex. I want to liven things up though. I don't feel as sexy as before even though he tells me I'm sexy and he is always excited if he sees me naked. I want to feel sexy, I want to buy sexy lingerie and spicen things up in the bedroom. I want to feel more aroused like before. I need ideas of what to do, what to buy or what? thanks
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Last edited by Alison H.; 08-21-2020, 07:04 PM. -
Well I'm work in a lingerie store and I am a general lingerie enthusiast. I would suggest buy a babydoll nightie they are quite revealing and sexy yet are comfortable, you can surprise him with this when he comes back from work. When I wear a babydoll to bed it's gonna come off faster than I could say "good night". If you wanna go a bit further you can buy a sexy set of lingerie that you can buy cheap from the web and when you're ready you can give him a lapdance with it on. I do this for my SO and he loves it salivating like a dog.
Important thing is your hubby thinks you're sexy so if you can wear a sack and he pounces on you then lingerie will drive him mad.It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.
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My suggestion is don't limit sexiness to the bedroom. Good foreplay can actually last all day - naughty texts, naughty photos, risky behavior in general, etc. Use your imagination.
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I agree with Jen. A good way to spice things up is to kinda drag it out. Maybe a no sex till fri thing but build and flirt and touch and text all week and then let it all go fri night.Comment
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