[yafa]

I've been married to my husband for 6yrs. We have always been very active when it comes to sex. I want to liven things up though. I don't feel as sexy as before even though he tells me I'm sexy and he is always excited if he sees me naked. I want to feel sexy, I want to buy sexy lingerie and spicen things up in the bedroom. I want to feel more aroused like before. I need ideas of what to do, what to buy or what? thanks

[Elena_EvilEye]

Well I'm work in a lingerie store and I am a general lingerie enthusiast. I would suggest buy a babydoll nightie they are quite revealing and sexy yet are comfortable, you can surprise him with this when he comes back from work. When I wear a babydoll to bed it's gonna come off faster than I could say "good night". If you wanna go a bit further you can buy a sexy set of lingerie that you can buy cheap from the web and when you're ready you can give him a lapdance with it on. I do this for my SO and he loves it salivating like a dog.

Important thing is your hubby thinks you're sexy so if you can wear a sack and he pounces on you then lingerie will drive him mad.

[jen1447]

My suggestion is don't limit sexiness to the bedroom. Good foreplay can actually last all day - naughty texts, naughty photos, risky behavior in general, etc. Use your imagination.

[Motorguy]

Well I'm work in a lingerie store and I am a general lingerie enthusiast. I would suggest buy a babydoll nightie they are quite revealing and sexy yet are comfortable, you can surprise him with this when he comes back from work. When I wear a babydoll to bed it's gonna come off faster than I could say "good night". If you wanna go a bit further you can buy a sexy set of lingerie that you can buy cheap from the web and when you're ready you can give him a lapdance with it on. I do this for my SO and he loves it salivating like a dog.

Important thing is your hubby thinks you're sexy so if you can wear a sack and he pounces on you then lingerie will drive him mad.

My wife has a crap load of lingerie she never wears it. She knows I wanted her body so she thinks why put it on it comes out in seconds in bed lol.

[MrB]

I agree with Jen. A good way to spice things up is to kinda drag it out. Maybe a no sex till fri thing but build and flirt and touch and text all week and then let it all go fri night.