[klaineydays]

A small while ago I had to get swabs taken by the doctor just to check everything was okay down there. It felt extremely uncomfortable and hurt a little bit; it's a feeling I never want to experience again. So now, as I've never had sex before, I'm scared that it's going to feel the same way as the cotton buds did. Any help?

[catwoman]

Are you going to be having sex any time soon? If not, relax. My first time having sex did not hurt. I think having a pap feels more uncomfortable that having sex does, and the more you have sex the better it feels and the less tense you'll be. When it comes to your first time, make sure that you're relaxed and with someone who is understanding and will go slow. You need to be with someone who you can talk to the whole time and let them know if something doesn't feel good etc.

[beethovengenius]

A small while ago I had to get swabs taken by the doctor just to check everything was okay down there. It felt extremely uncomfortable and hurt a little bit; it's a feeling I never want to experience again. So now, as I've never had sex before, I'm scared that it's going to feel the same way as the cotton buds did. Any help?

I wouldn't worry if I were you, if a woman can give birth to an entire baby through her womb, whats a guy's penis by comparison.

[jen1447]

There's also a magical thing called lubrication that you'll naturally produce when you start getting sexual with someone. That tends to make the whole process of putting things in much easier - and very pleasurable. Trust me, you're gonna love it.

[jns]

Lubrication from a sexual encounter that you are excited about vs a dry cotton swab = no comparison.

[midnightwishes]

I agree with catwoman. A pap is way more uncomfortable than sex. Make sure you're with someone who really does love and care about you, and who you can trust to listen if you want them to go slow, or to stop. Also, make sure to engage in foreplay before, making sure you're very turned on, really in the mood, and relaxed. You will produce natural lubrication, but if you're really worried, you can always buy and use lubrication.

[jilljames8184]

Try a lot of foreplay without actual penetration several times before the "big day". You will learn more about your own body and how it prepares for penetration. This also will enhance the anticipation.

[Motorguy]

A small while ago I had to get swabs taken by the doctor just to check everything was okay down there. It felt extremely uncomfortable and hurt a little bit; it's a feeling I never want to experience again. So now, as I've never had sex before, I'm scared that it's going to feel the same way as the cotton buds did. Any help?

Well Klainey if you have caring loving guy, who will be gentle with you for your first time the pain will be very little. With more pleasure after that first couple minutes.But with lots of foreplay with oral will help you a long with more pleasurable experience then have any discomfort.

[beethovengenius]

A small while ago I had to get swabs taken by the doctor just to check everything was okay down there. It felt extremely uncomfortable and hurt a little bit; it's a feeling I never want to experience again. So now, as I've never had sex before, I'm scared that it's going to feel the same way as the cotton buds did. Any help?

If you are a virgin, try out a dildo or vibrator and see how it feels. Who knows you might actually like it

[beethovengenius]

Oh, and use some coconut oil as a natural lubricant. It is very good for you're skin and is anti bacterial also.