[kira]

Multiple orgasms does not lead to a big one for me. It just leads to multiple of probably the same level. Some people also just do not orgasm from penetration. For some it's just not possible. You can chase it all you want but it won't do any good in those cases.

[effy2014]

Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending upon your perspective) neither women nor men are like cars. Cars have specs and should be able to perform the same way every time. Women do not. Men do not.

As BaBoy wrote, statistics from sex researchers suggest that somewhere between 40-70% of women do not have vaginal orgasms. It has nothing to do with a man's superman powers, a good percentage just can't. It does not mean that these women are defective. Just how that particular woman has been made.

Without speaking for Jen, I think she was trying to understand what your GF wants. You are very specific what you want FOR her -- multiple organs from penetration of between 15-20 minutes. You want her to react like the women in your "past" relationships. I understand that this comes from a good place in your heart and you only what to please her. As the women in this forum has stated, there is no universal reaction. So the question is -- does it matter to HER whether she has multiple orgasms from penetration only or does she want multiples from any way they can come. Does it matter if they come orally, with a toy or digitally? Our suggestions and responses will vary.