[Intheshade]

For those who don't remember me, I have a husband who doesn't like to be on the receiving end of pleasure nor does he have any interest in trying anything out side of the missionary position or fingering me. Well I found out recently that he has a problem with pain that he was too embarrassed to share. Apparently sex causes testicular pain that shoots down his right leg. That is a huge amount of his fear. Of course he is to embarrassed to see a Dr. Just keeps telling me that guys don't like to talk about these things. He is worried about it though. I have tired googling what little he has told me and I come up more confused. He says the pain starts behind the bottom of his shaft, spreads to the right side and behind his testicles and then down his leg. He thinks he has a hernia. What I have read online doesn't seem to match his description.

So we have that on top of the fact that his exwife mind ****ed him by forcing him to make her orgasm then punishing him if he ever came. He has said she would berate him for it as much as 6 months later. Since my last post we have tried oral for both. he couldn't stay hard with me giving it. Despite the fact that I shaved most of it and trimmed the rest, the hair that I had left bothered him.

He wants to use his fingers to make me orgasm most days but that is about it right now. So here I am trying to be patient with him. At least I have a bit more understanding.

[effy2014]

Inthenshade:

You have to get him to see a doctor. Immediately. That is the highest of priorities. Whatever is causing the pain may be serious. Yes, men are reluctant to discuss ED problems, but ignoring a medical issue is incredibly irresponsible. Do not take no for an answer.

The hair issue is easily solved. Just go get the hair waxed off.

[jen1447]

It actually sounds like a lumbar issue to me (tho I'm not a doctor of course). Lower back disk issues can result in pain shooting down the leg via the sciatic nerve and can include testicular pain along the way if I'm not mistaken.

[Motorguy]

For those who don't remember me, I have a husband who doesn't like to be on the receiving end of pleasure nor does he have any interest in trying anything out side of the missionary position or fingering me. Well I found out recently that he has a problem with pain that he was too embarrassed to share. Apparently sex causes testicular pain that shoots down his right leg. That is a huge amount of his fear. Of course he is to embarrassed to see a Dr. Just keeps telling me that guys don't like to talk about these things. He is worried about it though. I have tired googling what little he has told me and I come up more confused. He says the pain starts behind the bottom of his shaft, spreads to the right side and behind his testicles and then down his leg. He thinks he has a hernia. What I have read online doesn't seem to match his description.

So we have that on top of the fact that his exwife mind ********ed him by forcing him to make her orgasm then punishing him if he ever came. He has said she would berate him for it as much as 6 months later. Since my last post we have tried oral for both. he couldn't stay hard with me giving it. Despite the fact that I shaved most of it and trimmed the rest, the hair that I had left bothered him.

He wants to use his fingers to make me orgasm most days but that is about it right now. So here I am trying to be patient with him. At least I have a bit more understanding.

Well I been looking for another doctor this is where you go with your husband. You tell the Doctor hey buddy pull your head out of your butt this not right to have this pain. I had issue with a foot went on for 5 years. I went to several doctors in the Kaiser network. I even had one doctor tell me this horrible pain i was in was all in my head. I almost punched the doctor right then, my wife got into the doctors face asking question he said who are you and the smart ***** like my wife is she didn't missed a beat and said I am his lawyer. Right then the doctors next words we will send you to a foot specialist to make a long story short had a broke foot for 5 years. That needed a operation and spent over a year in a cast 9 months on crutches. What I am saying here you need to go with husband to see doctor, if you don't get the right answer seek another doctor to locate this pain he's having.