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  • Natalie1962
    Member
    • Jul 2014
    • 71

    Orgasm with just a penis alone inside of you

    I've always have been able to orgasm with just a penis alone with no hand or toy stimulation if I get enough foreplay. Even the first time I ever had sex, though it hurt as he entered me, to his credit her remained motionless for a few minutes and allowed me to adjust to having something so large inside me. When he started moving the pain deadened it actually began to feel good though I didn't orgasm. Though we had sex five or six times before we got tired of each other I never actually orgasmed though it always felt good. I supposed I thought I was having one and would tell him so (which made his ego grow huge). Having an orgasm would have to wait about a year when I was with my second partner. I was also one of those rare women who didn't masturbate and had no idea what an orgasm felt like. Believe me it was a shock when it finally happened.

    Can other women orgasm with just a penis alone?

    Natalie
  • kira
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2008
    • 986

    Sometimes it's kind of hard to define an orgasm with no measure except feel. If it feels really good to have sex, even better when he orgasms, and I feel satisfied then did I have a small orgasm? Or did I just react to him? It's not like every orgasm feels the same. Especially if you use different methods. The times he's used toys as penetration until I had a strong orgasm are different from the times of clitoral stimulation that led to a definite orgasm (not always strong and sometimes the strongest). What is not an orgasm and what is an orgasm is kind of a blurry line without someone scientifically monitoring all the effect on your body. I just don't usually define it. We keep doing stuff that feels good until we decide to stop. Whether there was a certain orgasms or not.

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    • Motorguy
      Veteran Member
      • Mar 2014
      • 3921

      Well my wife can orgasm with fingers and oral plus sex toy play to where she will 8 out of 10 times she will squirt. But her more real intense orgasm happen during intercourse.
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      • bootsie
        Senior Member
        • May 2013
        • 154

        The woman I'm with can and She even squirts when she orgasms,But I have heard that there are women out there who don't have orgasm at all through penetration.With me it feel good and is a turnon knowing and feeling your partner orgasm while you are inside of her.

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        • Romy
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 339

          If I'm on top then yes I have orgasms through penetration alone if it means it's okay that I'm grinding myself on my SO.

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by Romy
            If I'm on top then yes I have orgasms through penetration alone if it means it's okay that I'm grinding myself on my SO.
            I think this is more common amongst women who orgasm from penetration since the rhythm is controlled by the woman (rhythm is important in reaching climax). The grinding helps provide some extra stimulation to the clitoris, both the glans and the rest of it.
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            • Natalie1962
              Member
              • Jul 2014
              • 71

              I do think that being on top is probably the best position for a woman to orgasm as it gives her the control and the ability to "grind" herself onto the penis. Though it does work for me I've found that just having the penis inside of me in just about any position will do the trick. Though I actually prefer the missionary position as I love the feeling of having a man covering me like a hairy blanket as I give myself to him. Don't get me wrong, I believe that men and women are equal its just that in this one area I want the man to be in control, and nothing says that better than for him to be on top calling the shots.

              Natalie

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              • bootsie
                Senior Member
                • May 2013
                • 154

                Originally posted by Natalie1962
                I do think that being on top is probably the best position for a woman to orgasm as it gives her the control and the ability to "grind" herself onto the penis. Though it does work for me I've found that just having the penis inside of me in just about any position will do the trick. Though I actually prefer the missionary position as I love the feeling of having a man covering me like a hairy blanket as I give myself to him. Don't get me wrong, I believe that men and women are equal its just that in this one area I want the man to be in control, and nothing says that better than for him to be on top calling the shots.

                Natalie
                Natalie,
                If you don't mind me asking:Have you ever orgasm from just oral?

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                • Natalie1962
                  Member
                  • Jul 2014
                  • 71

                  Originally posted by bootsie
                  Natalie,
                  If you don't mind me asking:Have you ever orgasm from just oral?
                  Yes of course. Oral sex is probably one of the easiest ways for me to orgasm. It's just that when I orgasm I prefer to have the penis inside of me as the fullness within me at the time of the orgasm gives me an extra "high." It's probably all just in my head but it works for me.

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                  • bootsie
                    Senior Member
                    • May 2013
                    • 154

                    Originally posted by Natalie1962
                    Yes of course. Oral sex is probably one of the easiest ways for me to orgasm. It's just that when I orgasm I prefer to have the penis inside of me as the fullness within me at the time of the orgasm gives me an extra "high." It's probably all just in my head but it works for me.
                    Why would you think that it's all in your head?I don't think so.It's similar to the woman I am with.She doesn't like me cumming anywhere else but inside of her.she also tells me how she likes the fullness when I am inside of her and likes how it will trigger her to have another orgasm when I am cumming deep inside of her.She likes how it feels and feeling the things my penis does when I cums.

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