[Romy]

Unless you're actually in the situation it's very hard to know how you would respond, but just say after cancer you were no longer able to maintain an intimate, physical relationship with your wife/partner, what would you do? Would you expect your SO to remain celibate for the rest of their life (in regards to marriage and for better or for worse). How many men would tell their SO to seek intimacy outside the relationship?

[Something_Awesome]

I could still give oral though? I know the GF would remain faithful. She'd still marry me even if something like that happened to me (I know because we've talked about it as a hypothetical), and she would not seek intimacy outside the relationship. I mean, I see no reason why I could not give oral or do something else (won't say what the something else is because I don't want to taint this topic lol).

[Stillness]

You mean no PIV sex or nothing sexual at all? I can't imagine too many situations where some kind of connection can't be made by a willing couple. I guess a coma would make it impossible.

I wouldn't ask my wife to go outside our marriage. That's a death sentence in our eyes. Not sexy.