[hotminded]

I need help understanding what is going through my wife's head and mine. We have a great relationship absolutely amazing with great communication but there is this fantasy that she has expressed but keeps bouncing back and forth on the idea. Honestly I could probably be considered Bi simply because yes I can appreciate a man and his body. Years ago had an experience and I learned quick that I didn't want to be ib a relationship with a man just enjoyed the sexual side. Well I have told my wife all of this and many more fantasies to the extreme of her pegging me here and there in the bedroom. Well over the past few years and very recently we explored the concept of bringing a Bi man into the bedroom for an awesome night with all kinds of touching. We had set a few rules and started talking to other guys then boom the conversation ended cold feet. Now I try to ask without being pushy why and she can't answer other than now she doesn't think she is interested in any other man. My wife is straight up sexy and I have always told her I would love to share that and take her to newer higher orgasms with two men pleasing her. I have no cuckold fantasy and the only person I would ever be submissive per say to is my wife that being said I can openly admit that I enjoy prostate and anal on me. I don't think any hold up over fear of replacing each other cause I know I will spend the rest of my life with her we had expressed the fantasy together as a means of expanding our sex lives and expressing our love to each other even more. Let me be loud and clear I don't need negative comments calling me gay or a fag all that does is prove your immature nature. Please anyone with experience share I am not gonna lie I am very confused with her shutting in like this and a little disappointed simply because anytime she has ever asked I have done my best to not close in simply put communication is the key to a long healthy marriage and I plan to have that.

[jns]

I'm not sure what your question is. Would your wife be more interested in another woman in the bedroom and including pegging of both you and her?

[Claret]

Hotminded you asked this just this morning, my reply to you went like this. . .

Perhaps, a fantasy is just that for her a fantasy and that by trying to bring it into reality is scaring her. Lets face it, this is more your want than hers by the look of things. I also question the taking her to new higher orgasms. Perhaps she has already had what she feels is the best and desires no more than that. When you have really good orgasms, you just have really good orgasms, and I do believe there is a physical limit to how good you can get them (JMO). To me the rest is simply in your mind and how you are feeling at any particular time which is what changes them from really good to really, really good.

My suggestion would be to just give her space and see how she reacts in the future. She may surprize you and bring it up at a later date, she may simply be feeling overwhelmed right now by the thought of it actually happening.

It might be better to keep to a single post and in that way you'll get answers that make sense to the original topic and won't be all over the place.

[Fallen1]

Duplicate post.