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  • bootsie
    Senior Member
    • May 2013
    • 154

    women Going Down On Their Guy Right After Sex..???

    I see that my SO likes going down on me right after we have finished having sex and she haven't been the only one.I notice that 2 other women I was with before her would do it also.

    Are there any other women who do that to their SO? What about you ladies here?

    I know what is it for when men do that to their woman,But I would like to know:What is it the reason the women do it?What is it about the women who do it?

    Thanks for your response,Bootsie
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Originally posted by bootsie
    I know what is it for when men do that to their woman,But I would like to know:What is it the reason the women do it?
    I just read that for a woman trying to conceive, the odds go up a bit if she has an orgasm between one minute before the man ejaculates in her to 45 minutes after. Oral or masturbation of the clitoris to give her an orgasm could help achieve that goal.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • effy2014
      Veteran Member
      • Apr 2014
      • 1777

      Originally posted by jns
      I just read that for a woman trying to conceive, the odds go up a bit if she has an orgasm between one minute before the man ejaculates in her to 45 minutes after. Oral or masturbation of the clitoris to give her an orgasm could help achieve that goal.
      I had to google this after your post jns. It seems there is evidentiary support for the "up-suck" theory that a female orgasm helps sperm move to their goal. I suppose this is the one new thing I will learn today, though I am a bit old to be having more children.
      "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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      • Baboy
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2012
        • 774

        There is at least one apparently well-educated woman - Elisabeth Lloyd - who attacks the up-suck theory in her book "The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution".

        In her book (and on her webpage for all to see) she refers to a TV documentary that came out a few years back purporting to show a camera inside a vagina, at the cervix, for all the world making it look like the cervix was dipping into a semen pool, sucking it up. I recall viewing said program and it looked pretty convincing to my untrained eye. But the author says "Don't get sucked in", and that the whole thing is very deceptive. She says that people have been trying to prove the theory since 1950 and that such a decisive finding would have been celebrated.

        I am now off to the bedroom to do my own bit of research. My wife has agreed, in the name of science, to participate in a local study of the subject. Even though our government grant has not yet come through, we shall proceed notwithstanding.

        I shall publish a report in due course.
        I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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        • effy2014
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 1777

          ^^ Please let us know the results before publication, BaBoy for peer review purposes.

          My twins were conceived using a turkey baster with my swimmers washed and appropriately on target. No up-suck necessary.
          "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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          • bootsie
            Senior Member
            • May 2013
            • 154

            Originally posted by jns
            I just read that for a woman trying to conceive, the odds go up a bit if she has an orgasm between one minute before the man ejaculates in her to 45 minutes after. Oral or masturbation of the clitoris to give her an orgasm could help achieve that goal.
            jns,Are you saying that this is the why a woman goes down on her guy right after they have had sex,when he pulls out of her?I'm not talking about her having orgasms.I'm talking about after they have finished having sex and both have orgasmed and then he pulls out of her and she goes down on him while his penis is still covered in both of their juices.I just wanted to know from the women here what they thought about doing it and do they do it and what is the reason they would what to do it.

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            • angel23
              Junior Member
              • Jul 2014
              • 4

              That's funny I was why did this threat go completely off subject. I think they think its hot, if you are really turning her on she might get turned on by tasting the both of you. This is a good thing I hate woman that are like eww that's nasty.

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              • Motorguy
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by bootsie
                I see that my SO likes going down on me right after we have finished having sex and she haven't been the only one.I notice that 2 other women I was with before her would do it also.

                Are there any other women who do that to their SO? What about you ladies here?

                I know what is it for when men do that to their woman,But I would like to know:What is it the reason the women do it?What is it about the women who do it?

                Thanks for your response,Bootsie
                Well Bootsie, my wife loves tasting her self off my penis. Plus it adds to the sexually pleasure for me she knows it's still pretty sensitive for me after orgasm and wife doing oral on me just makes me curl my toes.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                • Motorguy
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 3921

                  Originally posted by angel23
                  That's funny I was why did this threat go completely off subject. I think they think its hot, if you are really turning her on she might get turned on by tasting the both of you. This is a good thing I hate woman that are like eww that's nasty.
                  Well I think most women at one time of another, if they ever give oral have tasted them self from there lover or husband one time or another.
                  When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                  • Motorguy
                    Veteran Member
                    • Mar 2014
                    • 3921

                    Originally posted by jns
                    I just read that for a woman trying to conceive, the odds go up a bit if she has an orgasm between one minute before the man ejaculates in her to 45 minutes after. Oral or masturbation of the clitoris to give her an orgasm could help achieve that goal.
                    Yes that's very true JNS, it opens up the cervix more allowing more sperm to flow through, increasing the chances of the egg to be fertilize.
                    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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