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  • bootsie
    Senior Member
    • May 2013
    • 154

    Originally posted by angel23
    That's funny I was why did this threat go completely off subject. I think they think its hot, if you are really turning her on she might get turned on by tasting the both of you. This is a good thing I hate woman that are like eww that's nasty.
    So,I wonder if that't what it is with her and the other 2 women that it did it?They never said anything to me about liking it or anything.I just know that they just go right to it after I pull out or they gets up off me.Don't get me wrong,I have always thought it was hot and it turned me on more seeing they do it.Sometimes I end up getting an erection again and wanting to have sex again by the time they are finished.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Originally posted by bootsie
      I know what is it for when men do that to their woman,But I would like to know:What is it the reason the women do it?
      There is an idea called the biological imperative to reproduce. If a guy brings a woman to orgasm shortly before reaching climax to quite a while after climax, it should increase the odds of reproducing per the up-suck theory. Thus a guy trying to give a woman an orgasm (including by oral sex) may be biologically hardwired. Women going down on men after the male climax and ejaculation may be related to the same biologic imperative due to parallels between male sexuality and female sexuality. That action seems to be without any direct biological payoff.

      I have read that some consider the clitoris as not needed in human sexuality, that it has no direct sexual function. It is there physically because of parallels between male and female sexual development before birth. The same reason males have non-functioning nipples. Yet the clitoris can be a source of great sexual pleasure for women. When looked at that way, it can have a great effect on fulfilling the biological imperative by encouraging behavior that leads to reproduction.

      Yes, I know modern science has found ways to work around the biological imperative, but the underlying biological imperative is still there.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • CapeCRunner
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2014
        • 242

        Most of the time right after my husband finishes he won't let me touch it because his thing is too sensitive... but sometimes I tease him and do it until he starts laughing and swats my hand away lol

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by CapeCRunner
          Most of the time right after my husband finishes he won't let me touch it because his thing is too sensitive... but sometimes I tease him and do it until he starts laughing and swats my hand away lol

          My wife does that same thing. But she will just drive me crazy and really almost send me to the moon she won't let go and keeps working it. I think my penis going to explode from the sensitively of it all.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by CapeCRunner
            Most of the time right after my husband finishes he won't let me touch it because his thing is too sensitive... but sometimes I tease him and do it until he starts laughing and swats my hand away lol
            I wonder if there is a evolutionary biological reason for the oversensitivity. Some people are more oversensitive than others. Some can reload and be ready to go within a minute or two.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • CapeCRunner
              Veteran Member
              • Apr 2014
              • 242

              yeah, I don't know... there have been sparing occasions where he has pushed through it but it's really only been because of my own amusement at the situation and I wanted to see if he could do it lol... and because of this fantasy he has about me being a little dominant and making his "thing" mine despite how sensitive he is after he finishes (he wanted to come 2 or 3 times in a row)... but yeah overall I'd say he is SUPER sensitive just aftewards

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              • bootsie
                Senior Member
                • May 2013
                • 154

                Originally posted by CapeCRunner
                yeah, I don't know... there have been sparing occasions where he has pushed through it but it's really only been because of my own amusement at the situation and I wanted to see if he could do it lol... and because of this fantasy he has about me being a little dominant and making his "thing" mine despite how sensitive he is after he finishes (he wanted to come 2 or 3 times in a row)... but yeah overall I'd say he is SUPER sensitive just aftewards
                I am too,but I'm becoming REALLY!! turned now seeing her do that,I guess it having something to do with seeing her clean off both of our juices with her mouth that I am covered in as well as seeing how turned on she is about and wanting to as well love tasting it.Sometimes I just wish that I could cum when she go down on me and wanting me to,but I never could.Not only with her,but with other women who have given me oral and wanted me to cum while they were doing it.

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                • Motorguy
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 3921

                  Originally posted by CapeCRunner
                  yeah, I don't know... there have been sparing occasions where he has pushed through it but it's really only been because of my own amusement at the situation and I wanted to see if he could do it lol... and because of this fantasy he has about me being a little dominant and making his "thing" mine despite how sensitive he is after he finishes (he wanted to come 2 or 3 times in a row)... but yeah overall I'd say he is SUPER sensitive just aftewards
                  Yes it can to the point it hurts when that happens it just drives me crazy at that time my wife could say give me the credit card. I would give her the whole wallet just so she will stop lol. But wife has push me through it and it takes about a few minutes till I settle down and enjoy the oral or hand pleasure.
                  When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                  • CapeCRunner
                    Veteran Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 242

                    That's when you really have a man by the balls, so to speak hahaha That's when I say to my husband, can we take a walk tonight? or something along those lines that I really enjoy doing and he usually just goes along with... that's how I kind of get him to agree with little things like that lol

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                    • Motorguy
                      Veteran Member
                      • Mar 2014
                      • 3921

                      I know she really does Cape, like I said before I would give her anything when she does this to me drives me freakin crazy lol.
                      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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