[Romy]

I feel very comfortable having my SO watch me masturbate until I orgasm and he has no problem with me watching him but I know that there are some people who shy away from this and even feel embarrassed so I'm curious as to what people's opinions are.

I guess another part of this question is do you prefer to masturbate alone in private..... oh and as I type this more questions are coming such as do you masturbate without your partner knowing - not that there's anything wrong with that.

[bubba29]

I will gladly masturbate for my wife but it doesn't do much for her. I love to watch her masturbate and she gladly does it for me. We both have no secrets about our self love.

[jen1447]

Someone's curious, isn't she?

For me, I'm totally comfortable masturbating in front of BF or GFs and it happens a lot, depending on what the sexual mood is. (Masturbation is often a tease between me and BF if I feel like torturing him, or I might 'force' him to do it and so on.) With women there's usually a different masturbation vibe, probably deserving of a different thread because it can be complex. Anyway I'm not the slightest bit shy about it, no. Doing it unexpectedly and in unlikely places or situations can have nice results.

Alone in private vs. otherwise is a tough question because you're generally doing it for different reasons. I masturbate alone a lot but it's not because I want privacy particularly, it's because I'm horny and alone and I have to do what I do! I guess I'll just say I love all forms.

I masturbate a lot without BF knowing but it's not really 'secret' ....he may just not be there or he is and I don't think to announce it or feel like sharing. Plenty of times he does know about it tho. I'll either tell him what I'm up to or even if he's not there I may text or call him with the news just to push his buttons.

I'm a big advocate of masturbation, as you can tell.

[Romy]

Someone's curious, isn't she?

For me, I'm totally comfortable masturbating in front of BF or GFs and it happens a lot, depending on what the sexual mood is. (Masturbation is often a tease between me and BF if I feel like torturing him, or I might 'force' him to do it and so on.) With women there's usually a different masturbation vibe, probably deserving of a different thread because it can be complex. Anyway I'm not the slightest bit shy about it, no. Doing it unexpectedly and in unlikely places or situations can have nice results.

Alone in private vs. otherwise is a tough question because you're generally doing it for different reasons. I masturbate alone a lot but it's not because I want privacy particularly, it's because I'm horny and alone and I have to do what I do! I guess I'll just say I love all forms.

I masturbate a lot without BF knowing but it's not really 'secret' ....he may just not be there or he is and I don't think to announce it or feel like sharing. Plenty of times he does know about it tho. I'll either tell him what I'm up to or even if he's not there I may text or call him with the news just to push his buttons.

I'm a big advocate of masturbation, as you can tell.

Yes Jen, very curious

[jen1447]

That's my girl.

How about sharing some more of your own masturbation preferences Ms. Romy.

[atskitty2]

I would be comfortable doing that and I've often requested partners to let me watch. They have rarely taken me up on that tho.

I've been curious to watch mainly to learn more about what they like. I figure they're going to do what feels best, so I can watch and learn!

[midnightwishes]

I'm not shy about masturbating in front of my boyfriend. Often, we'll do it together since we both love watching each other. I do masturbate alone. Like Jen said, it's not because I want privacy, but because I'm alone and horny. We both know that the other masturbates, it's no secret, though we don't really announce it. I like to sometimes, just to tease him a little when we're apart from each other.

[cathygirl]

I do it for show because he likes it, but I much prefer that we do it together. Watching him turns me on and watching me turns him on and it is nicer than just putting on a show.

[muffin70]

my wife doesn't like it if I masturbate myself in the week or more between when we have sex....so I will do it in private - in the spare room if she is on the couch watching TV or if she is out having a coffee with a friend or something I will do it in the bedroom.
She thinks I should just hold on until we have sex, but I need regular relief and can't hold on for 2 weeks!

But the other sunday morning she wasn't really in the mood yet I was as stiff as a flagpole.... she got out of bed and put her new scarf around her and did a sexy dance at the end of the bed, twirling her scarf around her body, playing with her nipples - while watching me masturbate.
She leant over my side of the bed dangling her breasts and sexy new scarf over me and about 5 seconds later I ejaculated..... she said it is fun watching me get all excited..

[TheKitten]

I'm not shy at all, my boyfriend and I do it together to both get off. I used to be really embarrassed and wouldn't do it in front of any bfs, but my current one is the only one I felt comfortable with.