Blowjobs - Mind says "yes" body says "no"

Natalie1962

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Join Date: Jul 2014

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08-11-2014, 11:41 AM

Practice...Practice...Practice. Oral sex doesn't really excite me except for the fact that I enjoy pleasing the man I'm with and if he enjoys a good old fashioned "blow job," then I don't mind doing them. It just takes practice to be able to get into this state of mind. The first few times I didn't enjoy it at all. In fact I never enjoyed it with my first lover. However, after breaking up with him and becoming involved with another man I thought that oral sex was a requirement with no room for discussion. Thankfully, this second man was very kind and considerate and told me that I didn't have to do this. That little bit of kindness actually made me want to give him oral.

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