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  • Natalie1962
    Member
    • Jul 2014
    • 71

    Looking into the eyes of your partner during sex

    I love for a man to gaze into my eyes during sex. There's something so intimate about that simple gesture. For me the act of sex isn't about achieving an orgasm, but the quest for intimacy with another human on a level not normally achievable in day to day contact. I've always been like that since I can remember. I crave being touched both sexually and non-sexually and for me eye contact is another form of contact which can bring intimacy to a deeper level. It's not that I want a man to look at me every moment of sex, just certain times and without me telling him. If he can find the right moment to gaze into my eyes during intercourse I can achieve that deeper contact with him and bring myself to another level of intimacy and pleasure.

    It's usually during intercourse toward the end when the man is getting very close to an orgasm and our bodies are entwined together in the missionary position. If he takes a few moments to look down on me and make eye contact and holds it, especially during his orgasm, it makes me shudder. I suppose it's just not the eye contact but everything that has lead up to that very moment, the touching, kissing, his breath on my neck, his penis deep inside me. All of it is enjoyable; however, it's just that the eye contact is the cherry on the top.

    How about others out there? Do you enjoy having your partner looking at you during the act of sex?

    Natalie
  • Motorguy
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Originally posted by Natalie1962
    I love for a man to gaze into my eyes during sex. There's something so intimate about that simple gesture. For me the act of sex isn't about achieving an orgasm, but the quest for intimacy with another human on a level not normally achievable in day to day contact. I've always been like that since I can remember. I crave being touched both sexually and non-sexually and for me eye contact is another form of contact which can bring intimacy to a deeper level. It's not that I want a man to look at me every moment of sex, just certain times and without me telling him. If he can find the right moment to gaze into my eyes during intercourse I can achieve that deeper contact with him and bring myself to another level of intimacy and pleasure.

    It's usually during intercourse toward the end when the man is getting very close to an orgasm and our bodies are entwined together in the missionary position. If he takes a few moments to look down on me and make eye contact and holds it, especially during his orgasm, it makes me shudder. I suppose it's just not the eye contact but everything that has lead up to that very moment, the touching, kissing, his breath on my neck, his penis deep inside me. All of it is enjoyable; however, it's just that the eye contact is the cherry on the top.

    How about others out there? Do you enjoy having your partner looking at you during the act of sex?

    Natalie
    Oh hell yes Natalie, I love checking out my wife face expression and eyes when we are making love. It's adds to my excitement when I do.
    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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    • Elena_EvilEye
      Veteran Member
      • Jun 2014
      • 372

      Yes I do it is very intimate and emotional. I remember when me and hubby were in our teens I would hold his face and look into his eyes and say "I love you babe", "papi I love you" and he would respond with "I love you too" as we were about to orgasm. Very intimate even gave me butterflies because I knew looking into his eyes that he really loved and he got the same impression from me.
      It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.

      -

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      • Magnetism
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2009
        • 1060

        I love gazing into a person's eyes while giving oral.
        "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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        • beereal
          Junior Member
          • Aug 2014
          • 5

          Originally posted by Natalie1962
          I love for a man to gaze into my eyes during sex. There's something so intimate about that simple gesture. For me the act of sex isn't about achieving an orgasm, but the quest for intimacy with another human on a level not normally achievable in day to day contact. I've always been like that since I can remember. I crave being touched both sexually and non-sexually and for me eye contact is another form of contact which can bring intimacy to a deeper level. It's not that I want a man to look at me every moment of sex, just certain times and without me telling him. If he can find the right moment to gaze into my eyes during intercourse I can achieve that deeper contact with him and bring myself to another level of intimacy and pleasure.

          It's usually during intercourse toward the end when the man is getting very close to an orgasm and our bodies are entwined together in the missionary position. If he takes a few moments to look down on me and make eye contact and holds it, especially during his orgasm, it makes me shudder. I suppose it's just not the eye contact but everything that has lead up to that very moment, the touching, kissing, his breath on my neck, his penis deep inside me. All of it is enjoyable; however, it's just that the eye contact is the cherry on the top.

          How about others out there? Do you enjoy having your partner looking at you during the act of sex?

          Natalie
          My man is always watching me during sex. But when I decide to stare back it is something magical between us. I love the fact that we are so in tune.

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          • CapeCRunner
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2014
            • 242

            It doesn't always happen, but there are times when my husband will just say "look at me baby" or something along those lines. I can't explain the exact expression on his face/ in his eyes when we're having sex, but it's definitely a look that he never has any other time... lustful/pleasure-filled I suppose

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              Originally posted by CapeCRunner
              It doesn't always happen, but there are times when my husband will just say "look at me baby" or something along those lines. I can't explain the exact expression on his face/ in his eyes when we're having sex, but it's definitely a look that he never has any other time... lustful/pleasure-filled I suppose
              That is the best feeling and emotional times looking at your spouse like that. It can be very sexy and erotic knowing your partner is having a really good sexually high for you both makes the sex so intense and fun. If the right words spoken by Donna will make me explode when she does this to me.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • jilljames8184
                Member
                • Jun 2014
                • 85

                Body language....your eyes and facial expression can tell more about than your mouth and tongue can. Oftentimes we will say things that aren't necessarily true. However, the eyes are usually very honest. Especially during sex. Communicate with eye contact to gauge how your partner is feeling.

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                • Motorguy
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 3921

                  Originally posted by jilljames8184
                  Body language....your eyes and facial expression can tell more about than your mouth and tongue can. Oftentimes we will say things that aren't necessarily true. However, the eyes are usually very honest. Especially during sex. Communicate with eye contact to gauge how your partner is feeling.
                  Very true Jill me and wife enjoy that eye to eye contact for so many years. But being together for so long we know what we like and don't like ad when each of us are in complete bliss of pleasure. We can sometimes orgasm at the same time we are in tune with each other bodies in a sexually way.
                  When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                  • LilahX
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jan 2010
                    • 291

                    It is truly intimate to look into each other's eyes - at any time. It does bring things to a higher level bc you know it's about both of you. The fact that you don't do it all the time makes it all the more special when it does happen. I think there's a place for this sort of totally intimate lovemaking in a r/ship but also for the 'animal' kind where you just get lost in the passion and just get caught up in your own pleasure. It's perfection to have a good mix of both.

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