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  • Tamara7
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2014
    • 4

    Virgin

    Hi. Well, my issue is next. I'm a virgin and last night i was intimate with my boyfriend. He was behind me, feeling like we were having a real sex, but he didn't have a condom, of course because i wasn't prepare for that. As he was going back and front on my vagina with his penis suddenly he pushed a little hard and that.hurt for a moment. But, when i came home.and went to the bathroom i saw dark red was coming out and i wiped it and wiped it again and there was bright blood a little and that was it. But my menstruation finished like 4 days ago. So, what do you think, is there a chance that to be a leftover from the menstruation or a little damage?
  • Motorguy
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Originally posted by Tamara7
    Hi. Well, my issue is next. I'm a virgin and last night i was intimate with my boyfriend. He was behind me, feeling like we were having a real sex, but he didn't have a condom, of course because i wasn't prepare for that. As he was going back and front on my vagina with his penis suddenly he pushed a little hard and that.hurt for a moment. But, when i came home.and went to the bathroom i saw dark red was coming out and i wiped it and wiped it again and there was bright blood a little and that was it. But my menstruation finished like 4 days ago. So, what do you think, is there a chance that to be a leftover from the menstruation or a little damage?
    No Tamara. more likely your hymen was torn you will bleed a little when this happens. But I really hope you on the pill if not get on the pill because obvious your boy friend doesn't believe in condoms. But tell him up front go buy some condoms if you have too. Keep this in mind No glove No Love and stick to that saying it will keep you out of trouble in two ways pregnancy and STD'S.
    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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    • calibri~
      Veteran Member
      • May 2014
      • 484

      I think by most definitions you are no longer a Virgin. That pain, and blood, as motorguy suggested was probably your hymen breaking, which means your boyfriend entered you and you did have "real sex".
      “...choose to believe in your own myth
      your own glamour
      your own spell
      a young woman who does this
      (even if she is just pretending)
      has everything....”
      ― Francesca Lia Block, How to (Un)cage a Girl

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      • sonologist
        Member
        • Aug 2014
        • 14

        wel it does indicate penetration...partial or complete is not issue here...as it did rupture hymen to some extent n caused little bleeding..and even if he ejaculated or had little penis secretions enter ur vagina..it wont make u pregnant as ur stil in ur safe days..

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        • Tamara7
          Junior Member
          • Aug 2014
          • 4

          It's not that he doesn't believe in condoms, it's just i wasn't prepared in that moment for real sex and it's not the first time we do this.. i don't take pills and i don't plan to but i know for sure that next time he must put a condom. And he didn't cum in me, he just stepped aside and turned on the other side.

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          • sonologist
            Member
            • Aug 2014
            • 14

            wel even if he didnt ejaculate inside u..still the secretions from penis do contain little sperm level..so..in general..even without ejaculation there can be little chance of getting pregnancy in unprotected sex without ejaculation.

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              Originally posted by Tamara7
              It's not that he doesn't believe in condoms, it's just i wasn't prepared in that moment for real sex and it's not the first time we do this.. i don't take pills and i don't plan to but i know for sure that next time he must put a condom. And he didn't cum in me, he just stepped aside and turned on the other side.
              Well Tamara even precum has sperm cells in it so that can get you pregnant as well. Just a thought so you know condoms each time then.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • Motorguy
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by sonologist
                wel even if he didnt ejaculate inside u..still the secretions from penis do contain little sperm level..so..in general..even without ejaculation there can be little chance of getting pregnancy in unprotected sex without ejaculation.
                I disagree precum does have sperm in it so you can get pregnant the chances are low but it can still happen. Are you really a Doctor because this is pretty simple rule that sperm is in precum and can get you pregnant.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                • DreamP346
                  • Oct 2011
                  • 2053

                  Originally posted by Motorguy
                  I disagree precum does have sperm in it so you can get pregnant the chances are low but it can still happen. Are you really a Doctor because this is pretty simple rule that sperm is in precum and can get you pregnant.
                  Motor, I think sonologist is trying to say exactly what you just said.
                  Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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                  • Claret
                    Assistant Admin
                    • Jan 2011
                    • 1823

                    It's just a matter of semantics and phraseology, I looked twice at the wording as well. What sonologist is saying is there is "little chance of getting pregnant" meaning low or small chance.
                    That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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