For starters, I want to make it clear, I am not a doctor, scientist, biologist, etc., so this is simply my theory concerning the mysterious and sometimes elusive g spot.
After tons of research and taking notes, I have pieced together what I feel may be a plausible explanation to seemingly simple questions with no clear-cut answers. We have read and/or heard the phenomenal wonder produced by stimulating the g spot located approximately two knuckles deep on the anterior wall of the vagina, female ejaculation. Research has proven FE/squirt contains enzymes not found in urine, yet skeptics say female ejaculation is a myth and it’s really just urine because trace amounts have been found in the excretion.
I’m going to toss myself “under the bus”
to illustrate my experience, hence the basis for/supporting my theory. I’m fully aware that one woman’s experience does not represent the vast majority so consider the following as food for thought.
Hubs and I have had our fair share of planned sex, moreso in the past, out of necessity. Working opposite shifts for extended hours doesn’t leave a lot of free time. Planned sex is good, right? Of course it is. Plenty of threads discuss foreplay starting several hours before the actual encounter – sexting SO, naughty emails, etc. I’m also a huge fan of spontaneous encounters.
Planned sex = prepared and ready, spontaneous sex = in the heat of the moment.
Back to the g spot and female ejaculation, is it pee or not? I’m going with NOT and here is why. When sex is planned, I make sure my bladder is empty. We have at it and all is good. Recently, I experienced one of those spontaneous, in the heat of the moment situations, which doesn’t lend time to prepare, so to speak. Suffice it to say the g spot received lots of attention and inevitably when she (g spot) blew, she blew. Doing so isn’t a big deal, per se, because mattress protectors are on all the beds. (not the plastic kind, but a waterproof cotton-like material) We stripped the bed, both mattress protector and sheet) and tossed on a clean set. The next morning I laundered the doused bedding. It didn’t escape my attention that the ejaculation wasn’t…let’s say 100% pure. I’ll come back to this later.
I found a Skene’s gland diagram that intrigued me. Imagine a tree: trunk, branches, leaves. The trunk represents the base of the Skene’s gland attached to the urethra, the limbs represent tiny veins, and the leaves represent spongy sacs. When the g spot (skene’s gland) is stimulated, these little sacs fill with enzyme rich fluid. A sponge can hold quite a bit of fluid before exceeding its capacity, wring the sponge out and it has the ability to absorb more liquid. Continued stimulation of the g spot wrings out these little sacs.
I’m going to digress here for a moment. Kegel exercises strengthen pc muscles, the same muscle that makes it possible to stop urinating midstream. When pc muscles are engaged, the urethra is sealed off, much like a dam holding back water. Many women say they can’t squirt until their partner pulls out, or if masturbating, the dildo is removed. I think this is because when the vagina is filled to capacity, the urethra is sealed off by neighborly compression.
Okay, back to the g spot stimulation, the longer the skene’s gland is stimulated, the more fluid it will produce. The fluid is squeezed out of the sacs, travels through the veins, down the trunk and into the urethra. With the pc muscles engaged (women holding back for fear of peeing) or compression from vaginal penetration, the dam effect blocks the path exiting the urethra, which causes a backwash effect rendering the bladder as a reservoir. Once the dam opens (removing the dildo/penis, or relax the pc muscles/going with the flow rather than fighting it) female ejaculation/squirt is released. Some women release copious amounts while others spritz or spurts negligible amounts, determined by the amount of stimulation applied to the g spot.
Now I’m going back to the spontaneous event that led to the less than 100% pure ejaculation. Um…there was no preparing, (emptying bladder) right before activities commenced, therefore, when the release occurred, it consisted of a mixture containing some urine and ejaculation. Normally, I’d have prepared by emptying my bladder beforehand. Typically, FE is a clear, odorless fluid. FWIW, regardless of g spot stimulation, for me, when sex leads to orgasms, I can't hop up and pee immediately afterward. (Which is supposed to help ward off urinary tract infections) I can try, but things have to "relax" and that might take a few minutes. So if I'm trying and can't urinate after sex, I certainly can't be urinating while having sex. Maybe some women can, but this girl can't.
The penis is a dual-purpose organ used to release urine and sperm. The vast difference in color, consistency, texture, etc. between urine and sperm renders the phenomenon unquestionable.
Where does female ejaculation come from? I can’t give a definitive answer, just like I can’t tell you where saliva comes from, yet we swallow hundreds of times per day. Where does milk come from when a mother is nursing? Consider the fact that a woman who never bears children will never lactate. The body produces various fluids. Some are dependent upon hormonal influences while others aren’t.
Again, I’m no scientist, biologist, doctor, etc., this is merely a theory I’ve considered as a result of research information gathered.
After tons of research and taking notes, I have pieced together what I feel may be a plausible explanation to seemingly simple questions with no clear-cut answers. We have read and/or heard the phenomenal wonder produced by stimulating the g spot located approximately two knuckles deep on the anterior wall of the vagina, female ejaculation. Research has proven FE/squirt contains enzymes not found in urine, yet skeptics say female ejaculation is a myth and it’s really just urine because trace amounts have been found in the excretion.
I’m going to toss myself “under the bus”
to illustrate my experience, hence the basis for/supporting my theory. I’m fully aware that one woman’s experience does not represent the vast majority so consider the following as food for thought. Hubs and I have had our fair share of planned sex, moreso in the past, out of necessity. Working opposite shifts for extended hours doesn’t leave a lot of free time. Planned sex is good, right? Of course it is. Plenty of threads discuss foreplay starting several hours before the actual encounter – sexting SO, naughty emails, etc. I’m also a huge fan of spontaneous encounters.
Planned sex = prepared and ready, spontaneous sex = in the heat of the moment. Back to the g spot and female ejaculation, is it pee or not? I’m going with NOT and here is why. When sex is planned, I make sure my bladder is empty. We have at it and all is good. Recently, I experienced one of those spontaneous, in the heat of the moment situations, which doesn’t lend time to prepare, so to speak. Suffice it to say the g spot received lots of attention and inevitably when she (g spot) blew, she blew. Doing so isn’t a big deal, per se, because mattress protectors are on all the beds. (not the plastic kind, but a waterproof cotton-like material) We stripped the bed, both mattress protector and sheet) and tossed on a clean set. The next morning I laundered the doused bedding. It didn’t escape my attention that the ejaculation wasn’t…let’s say 100% pure.
I’ll come back to this later.I found a Skene’s gland diagram that intrigued me. Imagine a tree: trunk, branches, leaves. The trunk represents the base of the Skene’s gland attached to the urethra, the limbs represent tiny veins, and the leaves represent spongy sacs. When the g spot (skene’s gland) is stimulated, these little sacs fill with enzyme rich fluid. A sponge can hold quite a bit of fluid before exceeding its capacity, wring the sponge out and it has the ability to absorb more liquid. Continued stimulation of the g spot wrings out these little sacs.
I’m going to digress here for a moment. Kegel exercises strengthen pc muscles, the same muscle that makes it possible to stop urinating midstream. When pc muscles are engaged, the urethra is sealed off, much like a dam holding back water. Many women say they can’t squirt until their partner pulls out, or if masturbating, the dildo is removed. I think this is because when the vagina is filled to capacity, the urethra is sealed off by neighborly compression.
Okay, back to the g spot stimulation, the longer the skene’s gland is stimulated, the more fluid it will produce. The fluid is squeezed out of the sacs, travels through the veins, down the trunk and into the urethra. With the pc muscles engaged (women holding back for fear of peeing) or compression from vaginal penetration, the dam effect blocks the path exiting the urethra, which causes a backwash effect rendering the bladder as a reservoir. Once the dam opens (removing the dildo/penis, or relax the pc muscles/going with the flow rather than fighting it) female ejaculation/squirt is released. Some women release copious amounts while others spritz or spurts negligible amounts, determined by the amount of stimulation applied to the g spot.
Now I’m going back to the spontaneous event that led to the less than 100% pure ejaculation. Um…there was no preparing, (emptying bladder) right before activities commenced, therefore, when the release occurred, it consisted of a mixture containing some urine and ejaculation. Normally, I’d have prepared by emptying my bladder beforehand. Typically, FE is a clear, odorless fluid. FWIW, regardless of g spot stimulation, for me, when sex leads to orgasms, I can't hop up and pee immediately afterward. (Which is supposed to help ward off urinary tract infections) I can try, but things have to "relax" and that might take a few minutes. So if I'm trying and can't urinate after sex, I certainly can't be urinating while having sex. Maybe some women can, but this girl can't.
The penis is a dual-purpose organ used to release urine and sperm. The vast difference in color, consistency, texture, etc. between urine and sperm renders the phenomenon unquestionable.
Where does female ejaculation come from? I can’t give a definitive answer, just like I can’t tell you where saliva comes from, yet we swallow hundreds of times per day. Where does milk come from when a mother is nursing? Consider the fact that a woman who never bears children will never lactate. The body produces various fluids. Some are dependent upon hormonal influences while others aren’t.
Again, I’m no scientist, biologist, doctor, etc., this is merely a theory I’ve considered as a result of research information gathered.
A friend strongly encouraged me to for the sake of possibly helping others. And she was right. Anyone who knows me outside of WH are friends I trust completely and they'd never "out" me.
as some of you here, but I'm fairly confident in my own experience. I know I've squirted & I'm certain it was not urine primarily. Short of having it analyzed, of course.
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