[JonDoe]

Ladies is hair pulling hot or not?

My SO recently shared that she really enjoys hair pulling during sex. In fact, now that I know this I realize that she has secretly pulled her own locks on occasion, but it was so subtle that is was very easy to miss.

If you like it, please share what you like about it. Is it purely primal, dominance, physically pleasurable, a combination or these or something else?

[Susan Sweetlove]

Well to each his own, but the idea of a guy puling my hair just makes me irritated. Playing with my hair is nice, but no pulling.

[Romy]

Well my SO doesn't pull my hair in a forceful way but when I'm giving him oral sex I've asked him on occasion to guide my head or control me by using my hair. He's always gentle and respectful. He's never done it without me giving him the go ahead.

[JonDoe]

Well to each his own, but the idea of a guy puling my hair just makes me irritated. Playing with my hair is nice, but no pulling.

Is it just the thought of it or have you tried it, but didn't like it? I ask because I recall a post on another thread about oral sex you encourage women to try swallowing (sorry if that wasn't you).

My SO likes me to pull her hair when sex is intense and she is on her way to reaching an orgasm. It is not yanking or even tugging as much as grabbing a handful of hair close to the scalp and as I pull back (actually rather gently), she resists. For her it is about both the dominance and the physical pleasure, which makes her whole body tingle. Her orgasms are awesome.

[Susan Sweetlove]

Is it just the thought of it or have you tried it, but didn't like it? I ask because I recall a post on another thread about oral sex you encourage women to try swallowing (sorry if that wasn't you).

My SO likes me to pull her hair when sex is intense and she is on her way to reaching an orgasm. It is not yanking or even tugging as much as grabbing a handful of hair close to the scalp and as I pull back (actually rather gently), she resists. For her it is about both the dominance and the physical pleasure, which makes her whole body tingle. Her orgasms are awesome.

I've had several posts expressing my love for semen and encouraging women to consider swallowing. That said, I'm just sharing my experiences, I'm not prescribing. I guess it's just personal preference. I really like for a man to play with my hair, to run his finger through it and stroke it, but I don't want his to pull it. Usually when I give a guy oral I like to be in charge; in fact, that's one of the things I love the most about giving a guy oral, feeling like I'm in control and setting the pace.

[atskitty2]

It's totally dependent on the context of the pulling & the way in which it's done. I usually keep long hair, and I remember years ago, a partner & I were having sex in doggie & he pulled my hair really hard, and it completely turned me off. He said it just looked so sexy along my back that he couldn't help himself. It was not ok, even tho I didn't think he'd meant it to be hurtful.
Once in missionary tho, my husband had his hands sort of behind me, holding my head & he pulled my hair really close to the scalp but hard so it did hurt a little, but it was really sensual & nice. It rarely happened, but that was very nice.
So, it depends on the mood & the scenario.

[Motorguy]

Oh god no if I pull my wife's hair during sex, I will be talking with a high voice my wife does not get into the rough sex idea at all.

[Elena_EvilEye]

I don't we could do hair pulling I want my hair on my head thank you very much lol.

[Romy]

The way my SO pulls my hair would never be described by rough. It's really sensual and makes me very horny. He's not yanking my hair, he has most of it in his hand and pulls gently at my request. Nothing rough about it - I'm not into rough at all!!

[Magnetism]

It's just feels physically pleasurable and adds to the sensation. There's something about hair that's very sensual.