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Your partner wouldn't be pulling it hard enough to do any damage. There shouldn't be any yanking of the hair involved.
During intense sex when I'm standing at the edge of the bed and she is lying on her back, I've noticed my SO hand raise up to her head and pull her hair. Sometimes she uses two fingers to pull a small amount on one side of the head; other times she takes a handful from the back of the head. She doesn't pull hard enough for her head to move.
I will pull her hair during doggy and missionary or when she is on top leaning forward. I don't do this every time. Sometimes we make love and sometimes we just ********************************. I usually gently hold a handful of hair first with a brief pause before pulling to give her a chance to respond. Sometimes her response is 'Mmm' or 'Yes' and occasionally 'DO IT!' with a sense of urgency if she is about to come. If she doesn't want her hair pulled, then she will just rub my forearm, which let's me know she prefers for me to just play with her hair, or she will move my hand to another spot on her body that needs some attention. Makes me hot just thinking about it.Comment
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